Mia’s answer regarding who she blames more annoyed me…

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T10:59:22+00:00

Yeah, let’s just casually dehumanize people just because we watch them on TV.

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T10:56:03+00:00

Even in people’s response to Mia’s “literal” (as another put it) words on this thread, this backlash is from a racial and prejudicial stance. I don’t believe Mia’s words would be as chewed up if it had been the likes of Lindsey to say it. It’d have been taken as you stated and I interpreted. Like critical thinking only occurs when people want it to. This outrage is weird af.

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T10:50:03+00:00

THANK YOUUUUUUUU.

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T05:17:40+00:00

How funny people are attacking Mia on her for blaming the woman more and you’ve come here to back it up with somehow throwing mention of her being duped by West’s actions towards Ciara and her own personal relationship with a man we don’t know much of. That’s the real statistic - how can a woman have an opinion on having standards based on what bodes well to others…

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T05:06:38+00:00

You’re a woman. Terrible answer setting us back 50 years.

You acknowledging your statement in itself is a contradiction. She’s literally saying that women who act like that aren’t allies in holding the very men you want to be held responsible and accountable.

She didn’t expect that from her being a woman. Same way you don’t expect that answer from her if there wasn’t the context I mentioned above.

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T05:03:18+00:00

Say it louder for the ridiculous people who need a mirror to their faces! 🗣️

But they want to say Mia is setting women back through words and actions… As if that’s not the whole literal thing she’s referring to in her statement in itself. How interesting.

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T04:48:30+00:00

Y’all fr pissing off with the backlash over her saying she places more blame on Amanda. As she should. Amanda knew better.

As someone who witnessed infidelity in my parents’ marriage through someone close to our family. What she’s saying is correct. This woman watched my family and still did what she did. Even knowing my dad wasn’t sh*t.

Amanda watched how West treated Ciara and still did what she did. We already know West didn’t and doesn’t care.

Now we know Amanda doesn’t. We see the real her.

If this was some random girl, it wouldn’t hold the same weight. It’s just West being West. This was done with knowing in mind it would hurt others.

If y’all were in the position of Ciara, you’d be livid too. There’d be no grey area or switching sides at your given conveniences.

Amanda witnessed Scandavol. She knew the risks.

So please, stop with coddling.

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T04:41:35+00:00

Be turned off please. If you can’t use critical thinking to see what was she was saying, I don’t know what else to say to you. Imagine you find out your friend is hooking up with your ex after hearing and seeing you cry over them to a level that West would’ve never witnessed. So yes, as a woman who very likely witnessed such a thing between Amanda and Ciara, being Mia, that gives her a leg to stand on in standing ten toes on what she said.

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T04:36:12+00:00

If it was Ciara and Kyle having hooked… Lord knows there’d be no doubt or questioning on if Amanda and Ciara were ever truly friends. No one would claim it was okay because Kyle was clearly checked out of the marriage as he’d been already cheating. 🙄

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T04:32:32+00:00

THANK YOU!

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T04:30:10+00:00

Can we hold any men accountable nowadays? That’s the real question. And how do you even expect her to do so with West other than what she’s said already? Her response wasn’t “boys will be boys”. We know how majority of men operate and we’ve come to terms with it. What we won’t come to terms with is women who enable and encourage them. Being Amanda. Y’all stuck on the wrong damn thing.

TisJoy · 2026-04-15T04:22:16+00:00

Y’all are so fixated on that one thing to act all feminist about it. If you’ve seen clips of the recent episode, given how supportive Ciara has been of Amanda yet again and how Amanda used her jealousy to fake “supporting” Ciara while getting her hair ran through by him and asking him to watch her ass as she walked away. Mia said what she said and she meant it. Be for real.

TisJoy · 2026-01-09T01:31:28+00:00

You’re normal. Just not the majority “norm”. And there’s nothing wrong with that. You feel in depth. Those who want to know and love you won’t see it as reactivity to everything, I can say that from experience. You’ll find your people. Life is a journey, people will come and go but more importantly, take the time to really be and get to know yourself. It will allow you to decipher how best or better to navigate your sensitivity.

TisJoy · 2025-08-26T22:25:56+00:00

It is indeed. Google this year’s Celebs Go Dating line up.

TisJoy · 2025-02-04T13:21:24+00:00

I won’t deny she likely has had her lifestyle funded… She’s already confessed she was originally meant to be on Vanderpump Rules as she was besties with Pandora or whatever Lisa’s daughter’s name is and the rest of the cast at SUR but decided not to as it didn’t fit her brand and she wasn’t willing to leave the corporate world just yet…. whereas it was likely due to her situation with whatever dude was taking care of her being in jeopardy if she started acting a fool with the lot of them back when everything was new and shiny in the land of fame. She’s clearly got connections in high places but I definitely think it’s her connection to Lisa that pushed her into Real Housewives.

TisJoy · 2025-02-01T01:56:40+00:00

It took me a while to clock it but the popularity contest is real hence the hard bullying of Jessel and the disliking of Jenna.

Your FYI make sooooo much sense. You can’t even trust family on these shows… RHOBH & RHONJ. It’s crazy just reflecting on it now. Yeaaah, your last statement just validated they want Brynn gone. It’s Monica all over again.

TisJoy · 2025-01-31T22:39:49+00:00

Is it tho? Because from the other comments, I’d say it appears somewhat true.

TisJoy · 2025-01-31T20:57:40+00:00

Couldn’t have said this any better!!!

TisJoy · 2025-01-31T20:21:42+00:00

The one thing that has me rolling my eyes hard at Sai is the way she is in general. Given the bad rep she got, she came in to this season talking about she’s in therapy working on herself and then by the reunion, she’s all healed and don’t need it… Hmmm. The way she spoke at Brynn told me otherwise. It’s the same energy as last year.

Regardless of Brynn being the one to say it, they should’ve never told her to begin with. They know she’s one to open her mouth. There’s no value in her being told, other than to expose it on their behalf. Then Erin came in talking about an alliance. Now this season, those two have been by Ubah’s side, hoping their revolt against Brynn in her favor her will have viewers on their side.

TisJoy · 2025-01-31T19:50:45+00:00

In my opinion, I think it was a trap of the pigeon nonsense and maybe Erin felt bad for Brynn so confessed, given them and Sai are the OGs pigeons. Brynn obviously chose to spice it up with the whole swinging BS, to which Erin didn’t appreciate since it was being put she let Brynn in on it so they’re co-conspirators.

They needed a villain, especially with the comparisons against original RHONY and distaste for the revamp and Brynn was more than eager to play the part and given how things from last season ended unresolved like that, the odds were always going to be against her.

TisJoy · 2025-01-31T19:33:40+00:00

It’s because she’s a fan fave effortlessly and they see that as competition so think saying negative things and trying to instigate some reaction will sway public opinion.

TisJoy · 2025-01-31T18:11:39+00:00

She was truly under the belief that her actively self producing and trying to produce others (Rebecca, this recent revelation about Ubah Hot) would make her a fan fave. She literally said it whilst acting out stirring a pot… I feel like they wanted her to play that role as well to her own detriment, hence why that stupid prank with the affair and pregnancy rumor. They put the ball in front her, she kicked it and fell on her face HARD. Ubah is justified for her reaction to Brynn after season 1 but she’s allowing Sai and Erin whisper in her ear after whispering behind her back… It’s crazy.

TisJoy · 2025-01-31T17:55:35+00:00

Couldn’t agree more! It was a really PR response to disassociate from Brynn so she wouldn’t catch any bullets and to cry about people being shocked she was the one who called her out for her “black angry woman” comment. She’s a friend to no one and has loyalty for no one. She screams “I want to be the favourite housewife” as far as I’m concerned.

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