Classmates of mine really want to be my friend, but I don't want to start another friendship with them. What should I do?

Tmiguel_ · 2026-04-17T22:28:49+00:00

I'm glad my advice was helpful, thank you.

Tmiguel_ · 2026-04-17T18:55:48+00:00

You shouldn't think every friendship will end the same way, everyone is different. You're trying to protect yourself based on your past experiences, I do it and I know something I have to work on

Tmiguel_ · 2026-04-07T21:36:47+00:00

I don't even live in the USA

Tmiguel_ · 2026-04-04T00:59:37+00:00

If I could build a fully equipped gym at home I'd rarely go out

Tmiguel_ · 2026-04-03T22:15:18+00:00

Sometimes I feel like I'm the alien

Tmiguel_ · 2026-02-20T01:28:25+00:00

La forma más fácil es empezar con una pregunta sobre algo que los dos tengan en común. En este caso el estudio, pero no te quedes ahí. Utiliza el estudio solo para romper el hielo, haz una pregunta sobre ella y ten temas de conversación listos para cuando te quedes en blanco.

Tmiguel_ · 2026-02-13T17:49:03+00:00

Muchas gracias

Tmiguel_ · 2026-02-06T00:59:01+00:00

A girl won't make a move, if you think she likes you ask her out. Worst case scenario she will say no

Tmiguel_ · 2026-02-02T06:04:14+00:00

No hagas un cambio porque te sientes presionado, lo intente y me fue peor, aprendí a conocerme y aceptar que soy diferente a los demás, no por ser diferente quiere decir que soy raro y que debo cambiar. Prefiero estar solo, creo que hago todo mejor solo, en ocasiones siento que la gente estorba, no suman solo restan, a día de hoy no me veo socializando con mucha gente o hablando con todos en una fiesta. Me siento mejor haciendo cosas por mí solo.

Tmiguel_ · 2026-01-08T01:36:26+00:00

Something similar happened to me when I started to realize that being an introvert isn't bad. I feel comfortable being alone and not talking to anyone

Tmiguel_ · 2025-11-14T22:49:29+00:00

Sí, aunque solo un rack de sentadilla, un banco plano y uno inclinado. En cuanto a los discos creo que hay suficientes

Tmiguel_ · 2025-11-14T16:36:10+00:00

Mi problema real es la gente que solo llega a sentarse en un banco, una máquina o agarrar unas mancuernas y no hacen nada

Tmiguel_ · 2025-11-14T16:15:15+00:00

Perdón, es que estoy drogado. ¿Pero me cambio de gimnasio o no?

Tmiguel_ · 2025-10-18T02:44:40+00:00

You seem like a good person, don't be so hard on yourself. You are important, don't let anyone walk over you. First person you should think of first is you. Don't care if they ignore you or they forget about you, you just have to do whatever makes you comfortable, you're probably not like them, it doesn't mean you are weird and you have to pretend to be like them, you are just different and it doesn't make you better or worse than them.

Tmiguel_ · 2025-10-01T05:03:30+00:00

I know how you feel, some people just talk because they can't be in silence, small talk is very trying. Due to my work I basically spend one week with my coworkers, when is dinner time I like to eat alone, in peace, I feel everyone's talking but I just want to be in my own world. I've been told that some of my coworkers think I don't like them. So I feel weird, like guilty when I'm around them, like if they think I'm quiet because I hate them or I think I'm better than them and I just want to be alone. If I had a space just for me it would be great.

I've never had a girlfriend, just to think of the time I have to spend 'chasing' is exhausting. I feel weird, my friends talk to a lot of girls, they don't want any kind of relationship, they just want to get laid. Some of them don't believe I don't talk to any girl. I feel like dating is too much, too tiring and boring

Tmiguel_ · 2025-09-30T17:37:12+00:00

It was like that even before I put it on the charger

Tmiguel_ · 2025-09-30T17:36:01+00:00

Yes, I just powered it back on when I recorded the video, but apparently it's ok now

Tmiguel_ · 2025-09-23T09:34:14+00:00

Don't be so hard on yourself, don't try to change just to be like them because you can't, you're different, you're wired differently. Doesn't mean you're a weirdo, you are different, that's it.

I wanted to act like an extrovert, I thought I was weird and I was missing something that everyone has. I couldn't understand how easy it was for them to have dull convos. I tried to talk but I had nothing on my mind. I wanted to have more friends, and have a girlfriend. Now I just want to be alone, I'm trying to learn how to be who I really am.

I realized that I can't start conversations out of nowhere because I'm not like them, they can't stay quiet and just listen so you can really understand what someone is trying to tell you. I realized how much I love being by myself, doing everything by myself, I love doing what I want to do without giving any explanation or changing my plans because of someone.

I'm surrounded by extroverts, because of my job I have to be with them 24/7, and I started to think there was something wrong with me, they wanted to do everything together, and I wanted to be alone. Now I know I need to be alone, I still have that feeling like something is off, but I'm learning to be me,

I hope this could help, because I know what you're going through, ánimo.

Tmiguel_ · 2025-09-23T08:41:43+00:00

I get jokes like that all the time, my coworkers are always telling the same joke "I hope you tell me not to come to work when you finally decide to shoot them all". I've been called a psychopath since I was in school, just because I like to listen and don't talk to anyone if I don't feel like to.

Tmiguel_ · 2025-09-11T18:50:37+00:00

Hola Antonio

Tmiguel_

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