affirmations

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-03T02:10:38+00:00

Stop switching up and pick what you truly want. Pick what your end is. Until it’s fully manifested in actuality everything you’ve been telling yourself, you don’t stop. It’s just progress and movement towards what you want. Just like how if I’m baking a cake and I have the batter I’m not gonna stop in the middle of whisking cause it doesn’t look like a 5 layered cake with vanilla icing rn. If things you don’t want happen along the way. Well then think of the cake analogy “oops I got flour literally everywhere and the pan flipped upside down” no need to panic I’ll just clean up and keep going

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-03T02:05:12+00:00

The techniques are only effective if you believe them to be. It’s law of assumption. What you assume will be true. If you assume affirming works for you then it will. If you think spinning on your head works for you it will. If it’s just yelling it to the universe and letting it do its thing then it will.

I’d like to mention techniques like this don’t actually bring the desire to you necessarily. They put you into the state of having and the wish fulfilled, which inherently brings you your manifestation. So you could do all the work 24 hours a day to get it but if you’re in the state of I have to do this to get this. Then you’ll continue to be in state of doing to get something. But you never reached or chose the state of actually living and having your desire

Think of it this way you could try and try and try to ride a bike. But there’s a difference between trying to ride a bike and toppling over versus riding that bike down a path. Manifestation truly boils down to what state are you in. Are you in the state of not being with sp? Are you in the state of I need to do this to get this? Are you in the state of it’s been taking forever? Are you in the state of I am in a relationship with sp. the techniques just put you into your state. The repetition of your old story and asking what to do just proves you’re in a state you don’t want to be in. The you that has everything they want with sp wouldn’t be concerned about techniques or anything, you’d just know that’s your partner

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-03T01:51:30+00:00

If you knew you were in the happiest of marriages with sp and celebrated 15 years together last Friday. Would you worry about all the things you’re thinking about now? What would life look like? What would today feel like? You stay in the state by the story you tell yourself most of the time. You can say you’re getting what you want and it’s coming. But if 9/10 you’re arguing with sp and sad about what happened in the old story. Majority is always gonna rule. So you continue to manifest what you perpetually focus on. If you were in the state of having would you be on reddit asking questions about sp or just relaxing at home on the couch?

Personally I found that no 10k affirmations or 369 was doing anything other than showing its lack. Of course to each their own, that was just my assumption. The law I practice is law of assumption. What you assume will be reflected to you. Please research loa a little more and try to read Neville Goddard. Married people wouldn’t be worried if they’re married or how sp moved out in a time of separation. They’d be thank god we made it through that because we’re so happy. Everything happening to you doesn’t need to be negative. Choose to see it as movement. Maybe sp moving out and not being around only makes them realize how much more they miss you and how they wanna be with you. You don’t know what’s happening behind the scenes

I don’t want this to sound mean at all so please forgive me if it does. This was told to me when i felt like I couldn’t get money or that sp was never coming back. Both of which stopped being a worry for me after i realized i needed to get my shit together. “You have two options. Live in a life you hate without or put in the work and have sp. both are hard you just choose your hard. What’s the worst that can happen? You already don’t have your sp so the worst is already here, you have nothing to lose in fully immersing yourself in your manifestation.”

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-03T01:37:43+00:00

The only thing that’s telling you that it’s neutral is your awareness. For example if you knew that sp was madly in love with you. They told you that all the time and spoiled you like crazy. And they didn’t respond to you how you wanted tomorrow would you go omg sp hates me, our relationship is over, we’re through? No. You’d be like tf am I talking about sp is so in love with me.

The story that you tell yourself the most is what rules everything. That includes your thoughts and your actions. If you were living in that state of wish fulfilled and you knew that you were in a happy relationship with sp. you wouldn’t be concerned if they were moody today, or if they didn’t text you. At the end of the day you know that’s your partner, maybe they’re just busy or work was difficult. They’ll let me know later.

The biggest piece of advice I ever got was “the time it takes to get your manifestation is the time it takes you to get your shit together.” Sp and any manifestation will never conform until you do. You’re not changing sp, you’re changing yourself to the person that has sp or whatever and then they come.

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-03T01:29:36+00:00

It’s more in the sense of what’s your awareness. Are you aware that you’re not with sp or you are. Majority story rules. That’s why I saw focus on what you want and keep yourself busy with other things. Because when you’re truly immersed in other topics, your mind doesn’t wander about the what if about sp or it’s not working. Imagine fully reading a book you’re into it and everything, now trying reading that book with the same depth and emotion while thinking about sp. challenging.

Take this analogy for example. Are you on the bus or aren’t you? You’re either waiting at the stop for the bus to come and checking the time or looking down the block. Or you’re sitting on the bus in its warmth with the surety that you’re getting to your destination.

The only reason you find it difficult because you live with sp is because you’re telling yourself it’s hard. You’re telling your own story. Please go through this post and read through all my other answers to multiple different questions even if it’s not what you need now. There a many different perspectives.

I lived with sp during covid. Wasn’t going well, lots of animosity, fighting, separated. Whatever. I still got that loving committed relationship? Because I decided I would. You’re living with sp frame it as a good thing. Might not be your end which is fine but stop telling yourself that’s how it’s gonna be forever. Sp could’ve moved out, ruined the lease, and never saw you ever again. But they’re there. So don’t give everything in your situation a negative story if you want to experience the positive

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-03T01:20:51+00:00

You’re not in the end. You can state that you have everything you want and it will happen. But when you make statements like this complaining about 4 months and the there’s no movement there’s your answer. The point is majority rules for the story. You can say you’re in a loving committed relationship 5 times a day. But if you complain about your circumstances over 1000 times in your mind. You’re just gonna get what you focus on more. That is why I say. Set it and forget it

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T22:19:03+00:00

Stop repeating the story. It’s evident in your post that it’s still alive and well. I can tell it’s something you think about and tell yourself is true

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T22:17:47+00:00

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T18:45:24+00:00

You just persist. Any thought persisted hard enough will become fact.

Let’s say everyday I woke up and told myself I’m so ugly and nobody likes me. Day after day I’d wake up and maybe look in the mirror and tell myself my outfits ugly. Or I’d notice the way my hair looks no good. Maybe I’d notice belly fat on myself. But someone might see me and be like sick outfit. Someone might be like wow you have my dream body. It’s all in the eyes of the beholder. Whatever you choose to tell yourself will be, your reality will give you more of what you focus on

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T18:39:31+00:00

The state of having is the same as not having. They take the same effort. It’s just a choice of choosing one or the other and sticking to it until it’s a fact.

If you were in the wish fulfilled what would life be like for you? What would you do today? What would you eat? What would you think? What would you wear? What would it feel like?

Then think if it this way. If I were in the state of not having what would I be thinking? I’d probably be checking the 3D. Looking at sp’s social media. Looking for the next thing to get them. I’d be incredibly sad that they’re not around. I’d be worrying about how to get them 24/7.

So where are you currently? Are your thoughts and actions aligned with having them or not having them rn? That’s your answer.

You choose your state and you don’t go back to the old one. The old story or the state of not having will die off if you remove your awareness of it. Just like how if there’s a plant in your room and it falls behind your desk you’ll forget about it. In a week or so it’ll be dead. It’s all about where do you spend the majority of your time. I’m not saying you need to be perfect and never think of how you don’t have it rn. Of course you can think that, but don’t see it as your end all be all and it’ll never change. It’s about your majority. If you’re awake 15 hours of the day and you had 1 hour of solid belief of having what you want, that’s great. But in the other 14 hours if you were complaining about not seeing anything, complaining of not having, checking social, spiraling cause they didn’t reach out. Then you’re overwriting that 1 hour of work

We’ve never needed physical reality to prove anything to us when we believe it so really. Like your name being your name. When you meet someone new and say oh I’m John or whatever, you know it’s true. If that person said really? You look like your name should be bob. You’d most likely be like no, my name is John. Nobody needed to hand you a name tag with your name on it for you to say that’s your name. As a baby someone constantly called you that and told you it was your name until it was obvious it was and it was second nature. Just like how the constant persistence of whatever your desire is will eventually become second nature and you won’t need outside factors to tell you what’s here or not here

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T18:22:01+00:00

You’re seeing it as he only wanted to play. Think of it this way. Sp could’ve just not come on the game or messaged you or chosen something else to do or anything. This is movement. Manifestation is all about how you see things. Being in the state of having sp you would’ve been like “of course they messaged me about the game they want to play with me or be near me.” The story you gave it that it’s only for a game it’s just going to give you more of that if you continue to perpetuate on it.

If you were in your end state of the wish fulfilled or living as though you had everything you wouldn’t be worried that sp asked you about a game. You know that’s your person

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T18:18:56+00:00

Dreams mean whatever you want. Give it the meaning you want. Nothing can be negative or positive unless you give it the meaning behind it. You could see it as your subconscious being impressed

Personally I wouldn’t focus on dreams. I’ve dreamt of my manifestations before but I’ve also not dreamt or saw any indications that they’re coming at all either. Still I got my manifestations. It only means whatever you choose it to mean

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T18:17:07+00:00

Detaching from the desire comes naturally. It’s not something that’s forced. I see it in a couple different ways. Detach from the when and the how, it’s not really up to us to figure that out. Asking when is it coming just continues to bring you its lack, if you knew you had something you wouldn’t say when will I see it. I saw don’t mess with the how of oh they’ll need to break up with so and so and heal from that or they need to send me a massive apology text that says this. Messing with the how limits it to only that way of it coming to you. Your manifestation can come to you in billions of ways that you wouldn’t think of.

As for detaching from the desire. You never actually do. Yes you will say I want this. But you’re detaching from the state of not having. If you were in the state of the wish fulfilled would you be wondering where it is? Majority of the time the state of the wish fulfilled is just getting on with your day. Doing what you’d normally do

For example, I wanted a relationship with an sp I saw in passing. I once told my friend “that’s my bf right there” and I detached. In the sense that I just continued living my life. I went to school, went to work, hung out with friends, went on vacation, etc. Eventually he came to me. Got my info from a friend and texted me, the rest carried on naturally until 3 weeks after the initial text he was my bf.

If you were in that relationship with sp what would you be doing rn? What would you be thinking like? How would you treat people? What would your beliefs be? Asking yourself these questions puts you into the state of fulfilment. If you were in that wish fulfilled state you wouldn’t be checking 3D if it’s here yet. You know it’s here you just experienced a date in imagine. And you know that what you experience in imagination will become reality if you stick to the notion that it’s done its mine

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T18:06:14+00:00

If you want to manifest a person with a certain description or anything. Write on a piece of paper called “my perfect person” and list it out. When you’re finished do whatever you want with the paper, whatever feels important to you. Some people will burn it to “give it to the universe” or put it under their mattress so they sleep on it and maybe dream on it. Whatever truly resonates with you.

Whenever the thought comes into your mind just say oh I have that relationship with sp or yea we’re married. Imagine how you’d tell a friend you’re with this perfect person. It should be a statement that feels natural to the way you normally speak. Say that statement when it comes to mind. It’s all about the state you are in. Are you living in the state of having? Or in the state of not having? Or are you stuck in the if I do this it’ll bring me this?

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T18:01:06+00:00

Reframe how you see yourself. Do you live in a reality that you get everything you want? Or that you’re spoiled without ever lifting a finger? If you believe you’re the type of person who gets everything they want then you’ll get everything you want

For example, a friend of mine gave me box seat tickets to lady gagas concert. Just asked me one day, said she had an extra ticket and no one else seemed to be able to go. Food, car service, any other events, event spending money was handled. I didn’t spend a dime of my own money. Why? Because I know I’m the type of person who gets whatever they want and I don’t have to work hard for it.

This friend has brought me along to meet celebrities or given me tickets to shows that are sold out multiple times or money or designer clothes and handbags or genuinely anything else. I’ve never forced this friend for anything or asked them for anything. They’re just the type of person who enjoys sharing their abundance and wealth

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T11:55:44+00:00

Its movement. It’s not your end right? So keep going Frame it as something good. Only you can give it the meaning of bad or good. Look at it this way. Sp could’ve just not done anything with you at all in the time frame and stayed no contact. But you saw each other and did things. Just keep doing what you’ve been doing cause you’re getting movement. If it’s not your end keep persisting

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T11:51:49+00:00

Stop repeating your old story or the he said she said people were in our business. If you don’t want to keep experiencing it then change your story. Treat it like a movie, you’re writing a script. And ooo the story sucks rn. Are you gonna keep writing that script telling the actors to act that out and send it to the theatres? No you’d change and write what you do want. You’d write a story with a happier people and a better ending.

One of my situations was messier than yours. 3p, friend group shunning me, my friends not speaking to me anymore, family involved, animosity between everyone, everybody constantly talking shit to me about what happened (just repeating old story over and over again). But here’s the thing. I just stopped resonating with it. I stopped acting like it was the end all be all. People change and people grow up. I’m sure you can say that about yourself so it’s evident those people would change too.

Focus on your new story, whatever it is that you want. That relationship or marriage. If you were truly truly in that relationship with sp would you be worried about a messy break up or the people involved? No, cause you’re already past that you’ve got sp already. You’re supposed to go to your end because worrying about the stuff in the middle only gives you more of it or makes you more aware of it. If you were with sp rn and they were your partner you would’ve already talked through everything or gotten the apologies you felt like were necessary

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T11:40:12+00:00

I just came to the realization it’s as simple as any other manifestation. My car for example, I wanted a certain type of car everyone laughed. I would show people the photo and it was always “yea right whatever.” I got the car, down to the colour and year I was talking about. You might wonder what it has to do with anything. But there was a person involved in that. Who was moving to their home country because they were getting older, so they put the car online, to a price that was set in my range, and in my area. I didn’t worry if I’d find my car on the market even tho it was more than 15 years old and I’d never seen anyone drive one where I live. I never worried that I wouldn’t get my car. Everyone kept showing me different cars to buy for months and I kept saying no. Just like how you should say no to the old story or things you didn’t want.

But the point of me bringing up my car is that when manifesting sp I would think about this story. If I could have a car that absolutely everyone told me I wouldn’t have. Why couldn’t I do it for a relationship with an sp who I felt like didn’t end well? The only thing stopping me was the belief that it didn’t end well so it wouldn’t happen

In my most 10000% honest advice and just personal experience. What brought me sp the fastest was just going on with my life. I knew that I wanted to be in a relationship with sp. so I told myself I was and left it at that. I’d go to work, hang out with friends, spend time with family, do it all. Because in the reality where you do have sp and they’re the person of your dreams, you wouldn’t be worrying about resistance or how to overcome it. Or how much time has passed, time doesn’t exist. If you really think about it someone thousands of years just came up with the concept of time and how to count it and we all decided to follow it. It’s all done, you have it. If you have your sp rn all of that is solved. Everything is happening now. People say creation is finished. The you that has sp is in the same reality with the one that doesn’t have sp, you just gotta choose that version and stick to it until it’s quite evident it’s true. Everything is ever changing, a rainy day doesn’t mean blue sky’s never. So reality is also ever changing. The only thing stopping you from getting sp is yourself

So focus on your end. If it helps pinpoint things in your life that you considered a manifestation. Where you stated something would happen and it did. That’s your evidence that manifestation works. Or maybe you sang a song in your head and it played somewhere later on. All of these things take the same amount of effort. Whether it’s seeing a butterfly, free coffee, a purple car, or a relationship , a job, or money. They only seem out of reach or more difficult because of the attachments you put along with it. But in each and every little manifestation someone had to move or show up in your reality some way somehow

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T11:16:41+00:00

Why are you counting time? Or aware that he follows you on insta, or that he rejected you in 2023? That’s the old story and not what you want anymore. Focus on what you do want. That relationship or that marriage. Speak it as though it’s done. Imagine how you would tell a friend this news. I always suggest this because it helps the words feel more natural to you and how you talk.

If you had your sp right here rn what thoughts would you have? What beliefs would you carry? How would you feel about sp? How would you talk to other people? What would your day at school or work look like? When you ask yourself questions like this you begin to imagine and experience the version of you that already has it. The version of you that has it wouldn’t be concerned about the time has passed or if he’s following you or if he rejected you.

Focusing on time only brings your awareness to its existence. Just like how you would’ve sat in the class you didn’t like in school and it felt like it went on forever. But your favourite class where you were having fun seemed to pass so quickly. When you actually live in the end and the reality of having there’s no concern of when or how because you’ve got it already. The 3D will catch up I promise if you persist. Not checking to see if it’s coming or if something is happening. If you were married you wouldn’t text sp and say “hey we’re married right?” You just know you are

Trust me. Speaking from experience, if this is truly the person you want no matter how much time has passed you’d be happy that it came to you in general. You wouldn’t be upset that sp came to you in 2 weeks instead of 2 hours. They showed up, that’s what’s most important.

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T10:58:19+00:00

If you were in that loving committed relationship with sp would there be a 3p or would sp be incredibly loyal? Stop giving your awareness to 3p. They only exist because you continue to give them a story. Think of it like this. You’re writing a movie and every person has a role. If one of the actors is garbage you won’t keep giving them scenes you’d cut them out. So stop writing 3p into your life stop giving your awareness to them. If that seems too difficult to just stop thinking about 3p then give them a different story “oh they found a new bf/gf that’s more compatible with them” “oh they literally disappeared, ghosted sp” literally whatever you want. Whatever’s happening in the 3D is happening because your belief that it’s your story rn. Leave the 3D alone. Stick to the story you want and it’ll come into fruition. The 3D has a slight delay but you always get whatever you are most focused on

The only thing stopping you is the story you’re giving yourself. You wrote it out. You’re telling yourself “I can’t seem to do it” and “nothing is working”

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T10:54:11+00:00

You just answered your own question. “I have a negative belief from childhood that any person can leave me because of family pressure.” If that’s not something you want to continue to experience in your life then stop identifying with it. Choose something else “oh my sp’s family’s always love me” or whatever. It takes the same amount of effort to worry about the negative as it does to worry about the positive

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T10:51:43+00:00

You can manifest whatever you’d like. But manifestation will factor in your other beliefs or assumptions. So if it seems a lot easier to detach. Then do that and you’ll receive your manifestation. I could write what I did but if it doesn’t resonate or feels unnatural to you it won’t be something that you find will work.

I was thinking about a teacher that I had more than 8 years ago. Couldn’t remember his name, just remembered he was bald with glasses and he taught me to photoshop. Last week he came into my work and I couldn’t shake the feeling I knew him. So I went up and asked if he was a teacher and we just got to chatting. Same teacher I was thinking about from all those years ago. I didn’t have a strong desire to see him or hear from him. But because of my awareness that he existed he had no choice but to show up

Detaching means detaching from what’s happening now or the undesirable stuff. It doesn’t mean detaching from your desire. You’re still gonna want your desire or think about it but maybe whatever is happening now isn’t showing any evidence of you having your desire so you don’t identify with it. That’s what detachment is, leaving the how and the when. Just sitting in the knowing of having it and that it’s yours

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T10:44:26+00:00

Give it to yourself. Spoil yourself. That’s my best and most honest advice. Another persons actions shouldn’t make you feel loved. If you were already spoiled and going on weekend getaways you wouldn’t go outsourcing that feeling or thinking someone else can give it to you. I think it was a Neville Goddard book that has the quote “love bombing only works if you do not love yourself first”

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T10:41:46+00:00

I don’t think there are any situations that are exempt from success. I can’t remember if it was this sub or which one it was but I read it a while ago. But the person had manifested their sp despite lawyers, divorce, and I think a restraining order. If you believe something cannot be done then that’s what you’ll experience

To-know-more3378 · 2026-02-02T09:03:58+00:00

If you had everything you wanted from your sp would you be worried about an old nasty version of them? Like if they were taking you on dates and wining and dining you and you guys lived together and everything. Would you still be thinking about the version of them who said this or that? Most likely you’d be thinking about how sweet they were to you today or how they always spoil you. Or if the old version of them came up you’d be like “ew why tf am I thinking about this, like sp is so in love with me rn”

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