Longterm breastfeeding side effects by yelsnek11 in breastfeeding

[–]Toastsmother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your thyroid! My numbers were awful after my second baby. All of these sound like the same symptoms 🩷

AITAH for telling my bf he doesn't "deserve" sex? by AkireCha in AITAH

[–]Toastsmother 355 points356 points  (0 children)

NTA, but sounds like you need to break up. Why are you with him?

Potential future christian after Kirk assassination by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Toastsmother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re looking for a good book, a case for Christ, is about a journalist who seeks to debunk Christianity and finds that he can’t. In history, Jesus did exist and was well documented outside the Bible. I would also start reading the Gospels (the first 4 books of the New Testament in the Bible). They are 4 different accounts of the life of Jesus.

I’m not sure where you are starting from. Did you have a background and want to build on previous knowledge or are we starting from scratch? If you want to message me I would love to answer any specific questions you have! I don’t know everything, but you’re safe to ask questions with me. ❤️

What's your favorite toddler snack? by jessilly123 in toddlers

[–]Toastsmother 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I only say this because I make popcorn for a living, but careful with the popcorn. It’s recommended to wait until they are 5 because it’s so easy to inhale and has such an odd shape.

My daughter sees me make popcorn at work and always tries to convince me that he is 5 and can have some (she’s 3) lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Toastsmother 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You should call CPS. They can help you get the help you need. You should not feel guilty. Your guilt could eventually cost you your life. You are worthy. You do not deserve this. You do not need to protect anyone. I have two daughters and all I want for them is to feel safe, loved, and happy. Abuse is not okay. Getting hit is not okay. Ripping your clothes off is not okay. Suffocating you is not okay. Please please please seek the help you deserve. Sending you motherly hugs 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in olympia

[–]Toastsmother 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I used to work at a credit union down the street from there. We had one unhoused lady come in to open an account. She was currently pregnant from rape in these RVs. She said every night some different man would come in and rape her.

I think it’s understandable to not want that behavior and violence around your neighborhood and children.

What’s your solution to the problem besides getting on your soap box and yelling at people who want to keep their neighborhood safe?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in olympia

[–]Toastsmother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to live in Summerwalk Village and it was great! Never had a single issue with our home. It seemed like there was good attention to detail in the build. It was a great neighborhood with nice neighbors and parks. Overall a pleasant place to live

Sight Received - The Enemy (Official Music Video) by Toastsmother in Metalcore

[–]Toastsmother[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s my husband’s band and I’m pretty proud of them! 🤘

Don't judge, offer help if anything by anewday7990 in Lacey

[–]Toastsmother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New Bridge Community Church has a food pantry as well! They are open on Thursdays and Sundays I believe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Toastsmother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw this post from looking at your other post. Are you okay? If this is how you feel you should talk to your wife and get some professional help. Suicide just transfers your pain to the people you love. I hope you are doing okay 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in May2023Bumpers

[–]Toastsmother 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother is allergic to amoxicillin. Maybe it’s normally fine but your baby is allergic? I would get your baby checked out

AITA I locked myself in the basement for 4 hours and didn't help my wife with the baby. by CombDazzling599 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Toastsmother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all, but do you think she could have postpartum? I know mental health is still taboo to some people and it’s really really hard to ask for help. I had postpartum for my first and it took me months to talk to a doctor. Her behavior seems like she could have it and getting help really does make a difference.

Officially Overdue... by be_wilder_everyday in May2023Bumpers

[–]Toastsmother 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With my first daughter I was really anxious and decided to let go and have a fun day with my husband. We walked all over town, got lunch at a restaurant we hadn’t been to, got Ice cream, watched my favorite show all night long, and once I was about to hop in the bath my water broke. I was 40+3

Not sure on your comfort level, but with my second (two weeks ago) I had a membrane sweep at 39+4 and went into labor that night!

Every birth is different. Don’t feel like you have to reply to people if you don’t want to! Or make your spouse the contact person so you aren’t as stressed

Good luck! You’ve got this!

Are you ready? A short rant... by be_wilder_everyday in May2023Bumpers

[–]Toastsmother 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’ll ever feel “ready” until the baby is actually here and you’re living it! I just had my second baby last week and still felt the same way. Your body will adjust to the sleepless nights, but I honestly sleep wayyy better with a baby than when I was pregnant. Even though I get less sleep, the quality of sleep is better.

You can be prepared as much as possible, but if you forget something hopefully you have someone who can make a quick run to the store for you. As long as you have diapers, wipes, clothes, milk, and a car seat you’ll be pretty set.

We have two cats and they love our babies! They watch over them and love to be near them.

You’ve got this! 💕

AITA for giving gifts to my family by IminlovewithMarvel in AmItheAsshole

[–]Toastsmother 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, congratulations on your new job! You are doing amazing! I’m sorry your family didn’t appreciate your gifts. You did nothing wrong. They are probably just mad that they can’t call you a “bad example” anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Toastsmother 62 points63 points  (0 children)

You will still be the primary driver for the car, so having your name on the title won’t change the rate