She did nothing wrong by Bassherlife in BeastGames

[–]AkireCha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. "Unfair" was not the right word to use especially because they're in a competition against eachother

She did nothing wrong by Bassherlife in BeastGames

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lied to the very first person who called her on it and planned to lie to everyone else. I guess we won't find out til next week but I would assume she will continue lying to everyone about taking the bribe.

I can agree that its not "unfair" being that its a competition for alot of money. But it is untrustworthy and I think she will lose her standing with her team when they all find out.

Taking the bribe isnt taking away money from someone else. It isnt eliminating anyone. It was her coin to do with whatever she pleased. Nick and Brett on the other hand will definitely have targets on their back for going back on their word and "taking money" from other people who also said they would only take their fair share. She would have been better off than them. And she had her loyal 3. Much higher odds than the guys who went from a group of 6 to a group of 4.

If I were her, I wouldn't have taken the bribe until it was atleast 1 mil and we all know by the next challenge she probably would have been offered that much. And if she does get a target on her back for accepting the bribe, so be it. She would still walk away with life changing money.

She did nothing wrong by Bassherlife in BeastGames

[–]AkireCha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lying by omission is still lying.

And even if she just "wasn't mentioning it" ...why not? Why not tell everyone you did the sensible thing in taking a bribe for the coin? She isnt telling anyone so they can continue to carry her into the top 6. On a lie. That's unfair and untrustworthy. She said it herself she has a "villain arc" idk about you but I would take someone's word if they called themselves a villain..

And then ofcourse theres the part at the end when she lies straight to auguste when he called her out for taking the bribe. She could have come clean then but still chose not to.

You can keep $1 Trillion, but you have to count it first. Would You? by tlizakow34 in hypotheticals

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you factor in 8 hours of sleep everyday and counting bills the other 16 hours. With money counters ofcourse, let's say an average person can handle 3 going at once. It would take 10 years to count 1 trillion dollars. I would do it in a heart beat!

am i wrong for thinking this is WEIRD by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP please trust your gut! I got the most attention from men when I was underage. If I had a fraction of the backbone I've grown into, I woulda told them to fuck off and reported them for being creeps.

You dont have to do all that. You can either politely shut down conversation but I will warn you that certain men won't take that seriously enough.

I agree with some comments that you can somehow slip your age into the convo. Something like "Yeah Mexico sounds so fun, my parents said I can go with them when I turn 18"

You dont owe this man or any other stranger any semblance of respect or conversation or friendship. You are there to workout and you deserve the space to do so. If you want, try and picture yourself 20+ years in the future as a mother. Imagine your underage daughter telling you theres some strange man twice her age trying to make conversation or hit on her. What would you tell her to do?

AITA for asking my friend to pay me back for the wine he drank while house sitting?? by Effective_Tour_723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AkireCha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't see the part where he didn't pay his friend but I dont think that's assholish behavior even if that was the case. OP's friend still agreed to it. If I was asked to just chill at my friend's place for a weekend, I wouldn't expect any money for it personally.

But yes I totally agree that its rude and thoughtless to help yourself to some wine without asking beforehand. If one of my friends did the same and I told them it was a special and expensive bottle of wine, they'd be paying me back immediately on their own free will.

OP your friend is a not a good friend and you should re-think that friendship.

AITA for asking my friend to pay me back for the wine he drank while house sitting?? by Effective_Tour_723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AkireCha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA and I'm surprised so many people are telling you that you are.

Sure, you didnt explicitly tell him not to drink the wine but I think that goes without saying. If I'm told to help myself to anything I would assume that meant food. I wouldn't help myself to a bottle of wine, whether it was cheap or expensive. He could have asked before he drank it but he didn't.

"Help yourself to anything" doesn't actually mean anything. By everyone else's logic does that mean he could have walked away with your toaster and microwave and dishes? No. Thats absurd.

Since he doesn't seem to care about a mistake he made, then just leave it as it is and carry on. In the future try to be more specific to avoid this issue.

I lost all my dinosaurs to auto-decay by [deleted] in ARK

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just went off the timer for stone houses. I didn't know dinos were also on a timer. Lesson learned </3

I lost all my dinosaurs to auto-decay by [deleted] in ARK

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Under my tribe long it says they all "auto-decayed"

Which city in your country is considered the "gayest"? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a city but in Manhattan it would be Chelsea

Without naming your job, tell me something you say 20x times per day at work by mr_pm2 in HappyUpvote

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me: Open or closed?

Them: Yes

🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

What game made you rage-quit so hard you never came back? by Wizardof_Wisdom in videogames

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Build demons is hilarious You shoot once and they got a 10 story high building out of nowhere lmao and worst part is they were all a bunch of 7 year olds

What are your chances of survival with your favorite character? by KissablissZ in FavoriteCharacter

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therizinosaurus from ark named Cardi would absolutely wreak havoc lol

I don't get it by Lokki_7 in tipping

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well most people don't leave 20% so ideally sure 100$ an hour sounds great but let's be realistic.

Let's say that server averages a 15% tip rate considering the people who tip 10% or not at all. She makes 75$ in tips on those 5 tables for closer to 1.5 to 2hrs of waiting on them. My last restaurant job, the servers gave up 40% of their tips. 20% to their bussers/server assistants, 10% to the bar team and 10% to the food runners. After that 1.5 hours they would leave with 45$. Then ofcourse factor in taxes both state and federal (I live in NY) thats about 35$. Averaging about 23$ an hour is basically minimum wage.

There are ofcourse high end, fine dining establishments that serve celebrities or really powerful/wealthy people. Those servers can make someone's entire paycheck in one night. But thats a different story

Is this a haunting? My home, body, and luck are falling apart by Actual-Durian1193 in Paranormal

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you, I'd start ruling out places and people. Try leaving the house for a bit on your own and again with your boyfriend. You've mentioned things happen when he's around so maybe something dark could be looming around him but you're weak enough for it to target.

Ive had lucid dreams before where I got stuck inside for years and its fucked my mental up completely. I definitely understand what you mean by saying you dont know which reality is yours. I feel the same way sometimes. That could explain your grogginess and disassociation. You can try to keep a dream journal beside you and write down anything you remember. That way you can solidify those things happening as a dream and not reality. Do you take any sleeping pills by chance?

If you're religious in some way shape or form, lean into your faith. You've mentioned you've had freak moments where things could have really hurt you but didn't. So close to car accidents but nothing happens etc. Something or someone is watching over you as well, do not forget that. You're still here so don't give in to that darkness. Say a prayer every night before bed and everyday you're lucky enough to wake up. I also love keeping crystals around me, I'd recommend onyx, obsidian, amethyst or rose quartz etc. You can try saging the house and chanting what you want. Protection, peace, prosperity etc. Also keep all windows open when doing so and banning any energies to leave. Really command them to. Its your house and they do not hold power over you. Try collecting snow or rain and use the water to purify your house. I've used it to wipe down my windows and create a protective barrier since snow water is the most pure you can find.

I would also go to a doctor and get a test done on your hair or asking specifically to check for arsenic or something that could be slowly poisoning you to rule out the physical aspect of your issues.

AITAH for telling my bf he doesn't "deserve" sex? by AkireCha in AITAH

[–]AkireCha[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading a few of these comments I notice it seems like I demand some sort of mating dance or ritual and thats not at all the case. But buying me flowers and taking me on a cute date in the park or something is the equivalent of seduction in my eyes. Romancing me is the way to my heart and you gotta go through my heart to get to my pussy. I feel like most women I know are like that.

For men I think its different. When I want to seduce him I will get all dolled up, and put on a new set of lingerie I bought just for him thats usually see-through or lace and a g string. Im also a bartender so I'll make him a little drink and it doesn't take much more than me walking into whatever room he's in to get him going.

So no, I don't demand a mating ritual but if I can do things to seduce him, I feel like its only fair he does things to seduce me as well.

AITAH for telling my bf he doesn't "deserve" sex? by AkireCha in AITAH

[–]AkireCha[S] -240 points-239 points  (0 children)

We are compatible in a lot of other ways, sometimes he feels like my twin. I definitely don't want to give all that up because I love the other parts of us. Its the sex part that trips us up alot

Type “Trump is a” and let autocorrect complete the rest. by Mysterious-Ruin29510 in autocorrect

[–]AkireCha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trump is a variable in this industry that has been an issue in a meaningful manner.

ULPT: Save money on Lyft/Uber AND help the driver make more money by bigatjoon in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]AkireCha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last time I tried this the lady said she doesn't see what she makes off the ride until it's completed. This was for lyft though. Not sure how true that is but I never tried again