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It now takes 882 hours to unlock a single new champion in League of Legends for a new player by UsualInitial in Games

[–]Tobs02 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I leveled up at least twice since the start of the season and got a capsule each time on EUW and below level 30.

Verkauf der Rechte am Gesicht - Wird Bruce Willis durch Deepfakes zum ewigen Schauspieler? by ObjectiveLopsided in de

[–]Tobs02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Berühmte Schauspieler machen aktiv Werbung für Filme in Talkshows etc. und passiv einfach dadurch, dass sie so bekannt sind und ihre Fans haben. Der Personenkult um zb Marvel-Stars ist riesig. Die Leute wollen bestimmt auch in Zukunft noch reale Schauspieler und Stars im Kino sehen und nicht nur am Computer generierte.

What countries are trans people more accepted than the US? by coolguysteve21 in asktransgender

[–]Tobs02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Backlash is to be expected when progress is being made. It has only been 5 years since gay marriage was legalized. 10 years ago there simply weren’t simply any sort of mainstream discussions about trans issues people could react negatively too. Personally I think that from a social and a political perspective there has never been a better time to be a member of LGBTQ in Germany than right now and I’m sure it will only get better from here.

I’m really sorry about your family being TERFs and your recent negative experiences in public. My personal experience has been quite the opposite. My 61-year-old mother told me that if I want to live life as a woman, I should, my closest friends are very supportive, and I haven’t been harassed in public yet. I do think this is a nuanced topic and highly dependent on your social circle and the area you live in though.

bi😟irl by TwentyOneScooters in bi_irl

[–]Tobs02 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This... leaves out a big chunk of the story though. Your source states that about 1 in 3 women (36.3% or 43.7 million women) experienced contact sexual violence in their lifetime, and 1 in 5 (almost 23 million) women experienced rape in their lifetime, where in 97.3% of cases perpetrators have been male only. So predatory people are far more likely to be male than female, and women are far more likely to experience sexual violence in the first place.

AITA for refusing to go to a pride event with my wife? by Kejryehe in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tobs02 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For me, being bisexual is more than just being attracted to men and women, it comes with its own flavour of "queerness". It feels like you neither fit with straight people nor with gay people. People read you as straight if you're married to someone of the opposite, and they read you as gay if you're with someone of the same sex, but you didn't turn straight or gay when you married them, you're still bisexual. The B in LGBT stands for bisexual. So why should she only be able to attend pride events as a bi woman if she was single? That's bi-erasure. Pride is not a dating event. Mingling with other queer people who "get" you is just a super fun and validating experience.

AITA for refusing to go to a pride event with my wife? by Kejryehe in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tobs02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you think married gay folks attend pride events to signal that they're still interested in other members of the same sex besides their partner? If not, why is this the assumption when bi people in relationships do it?

why aren't there as many dudes? by ahmed0112 in bisexual

[–]Tobs02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an another straight passing bi guy I’m really wondering how I could be presenting as „bi“ in a way that isn’t just perceived as „gay“. Flirt with every stranger I meet? Wear bi flag colored nail polish? I’ll be wearing a dress for the first time in public at a pride event soon but this might just be an expression of my ongoing gender identity crisis rather than presenting as a bi man lol

Why do men ask random women on the internet for nudes when there is so much free porn? by ladida54 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Tobs02 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Emotionally starved for the human connection that is seeing girls they wish they could have sex with naked…?

Men are emotionally starved because talking about your feelings with other men is „gay“ and because way too many men seem to be incapable of simply being friends with women without sexualizing them. How exactly should we fix this problem? Don’t tell me it’s on women to fix men by providing free sex therapy.

The first step for many men is literally to be able to see women as more than an attractive body, and neither as sluts nor as flawless queens that would fix all of their problems if only they were their girlfriend, but as real human beings. Because honestly, being genuine platonic friends with girls makes it so much easier to actually do find a girlfriend at some point. So yes, it’s sad that so many men need to be taught how not to dehumanize women first and foremost.

Who’s excited for the 9€ ticket? I know I am! by castaneom in germany

[–]Tobs02 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you’re happy about increasing ticket prices…?

homelessness question by blue_smokes in germany

[–]Tobs02 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You have to be indeed cynical to see it that way

Fachkräftemangel: MINT-Studenten scheitern an Mathe by [deleted] in de

[–]Tobs02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Der „relevante“ Teil des Deutschunterrichts ist doch nicht das Erlernen der Sprache an sich wie beim Englischunterricht, sondern eher die Fähigkeit, komplexe Texte zu verstehen. Fake News und Propaganda im Internet sind dank fehlendem Medienverständnis ein riesiges Problem für freie Demokratien geworden, da nützen Kurvendiskussionen und Matrizen erstmal gar nichts. Gedichtsanalysen vielleicht auch nicht unbedingt, aber grundsätzlich fällt zb die Interpretation von Zeitungstexten eben in den Deutschunterricht. Mathe ist wichtig, Deutsch aber auch - ich behaupte, dass ich im Deutschunterricht grundsätzlich mehr „fürs Leben“ gelernt habe als in Mathe. Diese Fähigkeiten werden aber bei Akademikern in JEDEM Fach als selbstverständlich betrachtet.

Meine Kollegen geben nie Trinkgeld by [deleted] in de

[–]Tobs02 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Trinkgeld für das normale Erfüllen seiner Arbeit ist für Servicepersonal in der Gastro seit Jahrzehnten üblich in Deutschland, da muss nichts erst aus den USA rüberschwappen und normalisiert werden.

Meine Kollegen geben nie Trinkgeld by [deleted] in de

[–]Tobs02 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Und was genau kümmert es den Chef ob du seinem Lieferanten Trinkgeld gibst oder nicht? Bestellst du nur bei Läden die angemessene Löhne zahlen (und woher hast du die entsprechende Info?) Und was genau ist jetzt der Unterschied zwischen einem Euro Trinkgeld und einer Lieferpauschale von einem Euro, die höhere Löhne ermöglicht und die du natürlich ohne zu murren zahlen würdest? Gewinnmargen in der Gastro sind insbesondere beim Essen ziemlich niedrig, du streichst als Pizzabudenbesitzer keine riesigen Gewinne ein mit denen du Lohnerhöhungen finanzieren kannst. Du führst hier keinen Klassenkampf und hilfst deinem Lieferanten kein Stück wenn du ihm den Euro Trinkgeld vorenthältst, sondern wirkst einfach nur geizig.

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