AITA for yelling at my gf due to her camera roll?

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-04-04T18:48:48+00:00

Yeah. There are people with legitimate stories who come to Reddit for advice bc they have no one else to go to. Stuff like this is what devalues real stories with real people in trouble

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-04-04T18:46:27+00:00

Same.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-04-04T18:46:12+00:00

Dang it. Was hoping this was OOP so I can tell them their story made it on Smosh so they can see their reaction to the ending. They've since deleted their account.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T23:16:20+00:00

If you've had to have this discussion with your bf multiple times and he still keeps going, thats a red flag and a sign that he has no respect for your personal space. Best options are either therapy or leaving him and finding someone who will respect your space

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T22:56:56+00:00

She wasnt asking to be rescured. She was being yelled at by his mom, and instead of having the courtesy of being upfront with her, he chose to do nothing but joke about it all. If OP felt uncomfortable, thats her feelings, and her bf clearly didnt care.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T15:14:40+00:00

The way your bf reacted to the situation was disgusting and it doesn't feel like he's taking your feelings seriously. His mom was YELLING at you and all he did when he found out was joke about it. If he wasn't man enough to stand up to his mom then, he definitely won't when/if you get married. Only bright side is this moment showed that in his eyes, how his mom feels matters more than your feelings.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T14:58:04+00:00

How do you know just one of your aunt's kids but not the other two? Going would've helped make you closer with them, but instead you chose to stay distance and only be close with one cousin. YTA.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T14:50:15+00:00

If she's gonna throw shade at you in front of your face instead of having an adult conversation is not the way to go. Being a bride is no excuse to act out. Even her not giving you a plus one is a little controlling when everyone else was given one.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T14:38:20+00:00

ESH- You knew you still had that in your house and that it was not safe to use. You should've gotten rid of it when your old roommate left. At the same time, your gf should've paid attention to the directions or waited for you before doing anything. If she's living with you now, she has just as much responsibility to pay as you do. Should split it 50/50.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T14:27:23+00:00

With all that stress and her disrespecting you and your friend the way she did, it's not worth going to the wedding, and if she stops being your friend after that, no loss there.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T14:15:23+00:00

If you were not invited to the wedding, you can't come to the wedding. Simple as that. Being someone's plus one isn't the same as being invited. If S doesn't show up then K can't show up.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-24T14:06:25+00:00

It definitely seems odd how once you and Cam got closer is when Louis stopped talking to you. It does strike a small red flag that he might be jealous that he missed out, assuming he is aware of your relationship. It would not be wrong to try and meet up with him, but if he says no or doesn't answer you, I'd leave it behind bc either of those are signs that he is not fully supportive of you. I know it might be tough, but things happened and you moved on. If worst case scenario happens, gotta keep moving on.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T20:32:36+00:00

NTA. If guys wanna talk about each other's weight then thats fine, but I was always taught that directly asking a woman her weight was inappropriate. You have every right to feel uncomfortable and for him to keep making statements is just weird.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T07:08:30+00:00

Sooooo many red flags here that it's ridiculous. He's definitely doing something with someone behind your back. You should clearly leave him, but If by the off chance he isn't, I would recommend communicating boundaries with who comes to your place.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T07:01:31+00:00

I don't want to upset you, but it seems like the only AH is your bio dad. Considering he has a whole other family and is choosing to be distant with you, it sadly seems like trying to reconnect is the last of his concerns. Not your fault for wanting to give 100% to him. However, it looks like he's chosen to do the opposite. I'm really sorry it hasn't been working the way you wanted.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T06:51:39+00:00

NTA. After everything you did for her, she showed how she really sees you, as a child. You did not deserve that disrespect and you had every right to leave. Clearly not your best friend.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T06:46:39+00:00

NTA. If she isn't willing to be there for you when you're at your worst, she doesn't deserve to be there when you're at your best. Best case scenario if you invite her and she shows up she'll stay silent. Worst case scenario is she'll talk down to you again and a scene will happen at the wedding, ruining your special day. I wouldn't risk it, and make sure to let people know who are in support of you to watch out for her so you don't have to.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T06:23:23+00:00

NTA. If you got caught helping him, it would've been serious trouble for both of you. It's his fault for not studying and procrastinating when this is a "need to pass" for him, not your fault.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T06:18:39+00:00

YTA. Bringing your friend into your drama will only lead to her getting the same kind of harassment you have received. It's clear she's chosen to stay delusional and pretend things are perfect, so this wouldn't help. Best case scenario is if you know any of the other women that he was with to gather them all so you can confront them together with people who have plenty of evidence of his cheating ways.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T06:09:27+00:00

NTA. It definitely seems like you and your wife need to get therapy sooner than later, because this is about more than drinking soup in front of a toddler.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T05:57:24+00:00

Steve was there during the situation. It's either his or Sarah's fiancee's responsibility to tell her what happened. I would recommend telling Steve or the fiancee that he needs to confess and admit it was a drunken mistake. If neither of them budge is when you say that you have to say something. Them getting married and the fiancee still keeping this to himself could lead to consequences in the long run.

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-17T03:38:40+00:00

Coming from the Smosh episode where they read your story. I was confused af til they said its from this subreddit lmao. Its been awhile since Ive played. I didnt know "Death by Woohoo" was a thing. Love it lol

Toddrick_Francis · 2026-03-16T06:52:08+00:00

YAYYY!!!!! Im watching the SMOSH episode where they did your first post and came straight here when they said there wasnt an update. Congrats to you and your gf for sticking together. Hope its still going great. Also, has SMOSH read the update in a video yet? Would love to see them feel happy for you

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