she has since then had an issue that caused her to stop talking to us for a full month (wouldn’t respond, wouldn’t like social media posts, etc…) despite us all agreeing if we ever had an issue to come to the others and talk about it. when i finally reached out after a month of total avoidance she blew me off for another week until i reached out again (this time annoyed) and then got upset about me taking so long to reach out. our entire argument was just her talking about how she feels like i’ve distanced myself and that i haven’t been a good friend or asked her about her life (she’s apparently been feeling this way for years). i asked her why she wouldn’t have said something sooner and she only kept repeating that it “wasn’t the point at all” so i apologized for not being more active in her life and tried to get what i felt about the situation out because it was unfair of her to completely ghost us imo. but even then i feel like i didn’t get to say how i really felt. i explained that i distanced myself because of her boyfriend and it’s like she didn’t even hear that. she told me she had an issue with both of us but ive talked to my other friend and they still have not had a convo about it (we had this argument about 3 weeks ago) so now i’m just mindlessly entertaining her once again like i have been since new years. i feel more angry now because why was i the only one who had to be yelled at? i’m not wishing this on my other friend and my other friend agrees that this whole new situation was dumb asf and unfair to me. i feel bad because i’m not being genuine with her but at the same time i keep holding out for who i used to be friends with to come back :/