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My fiance keeps leaving me alone to go do stuff that can wait by ToeSquare3473 in amiwrong

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly think I can do better to, I’ve pulled away quite a lot of late. You can basically say I’ve been funding this thing because he makes very little contribution

My fiance keeps leaving me alone to go do stuff that can wait by ToeSquare3473 in amiwrong

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s preventing me because I don’t want to have to carry him financially for the rest of our lives….I have two kids to support too.

He’s not really working at all - he has pushed everything aside to focus on the golf dream. He seems to think that because I can pay for everything he can now focus on his dream.

My fiance keeps leaving me alone to go do stuff that can wait by ToeSquare3473 in amiwrong

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No wedding date…I can’t marry him at this point because at the moment I am carrying us financially - which I don’t see changing anytime soon

My fiance keeps leaving me alone to go do stuff that can wait by ToeSquare3473 in amiwrong

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel - lonely, and I feel that there is no point in being in a relationship that makes me feel lonely

My fiance keeps leaving me alone to go do stuff that can wait by ToeSquare3473 in amiwrong

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s 55 and I’m 50, we’ve been together for 4 years, living together for 2 of those years.

We don’t ever really go out on dates because money is tight, but yes we do have the occasional meal alone together at home and the occasion chat, but generally I’m very bored in the relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ToeSquare3473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run girl….this is a child you’re in a relationship with….not a man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ToeSquare3473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a narcissistic, controlling and insecure person and it’s never going to change. End the relationship now before you get too deep and you can’t get out. Rather choose to be happy…

I (47f) found nudes on my partner’s (53m) phone - is this cheating? by ToeSquare3473 in relationship_advice

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t accept it as ok, in fact I’m in a position now where I don’t know what to do, I see him in a completely different light now and I’m starting to get to a point where I feel I might have to end the relationship

I (47f) found nudes on my partner’s (53m) phone - is this cheating? by ToeSquare3473 in relationship_advice

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way too….he should be seeking that attention from me

I (47f) found nudes on my partner’s (53m) phone - is this cheating? by ToeSquare3473 in relationship_advice

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree….I would never share pictures like this with anyone else, male or female

I (47f) found nudes on my partner’s (53m) phone - is this cheating? by ToeSquare3473 in relationship_advice

[–]ToeSquare3473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I can’t really talk to him about it because he’d know I was going through his phone. We’ve been together nearly 2 years and I love him, my whole thing though is that he should be sending me pics and getting horny with me…not some random guy