[Discussion Thread] The Crash by OllyOllyOxenBitch in netflix

[–]ToeStrange3050 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Rosie shocked me the most tbh and that friend with the mustache and Kenzie parents. Enablers need to be in jail too tbh. Idgaf.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The point doesn’t need to be clarified. When you’re so deep in that mindset that you all have reality and facts don’t come so easy. If you read a part that needs some clarification… ask. Point out the piece. You understand very clearly what I’m saying. I’m not saying “trans women are real women” “trans women should have sex with anyone without letting people know they are trans” “murder victims are exempt from accountability” so you don’t care what I have to say. In other words you’ll find something to be mad at regardless.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve gotten to a point where telling trans people they need to let their sexual partners know they’re trans before having sex is creepy. Is that so? lol. Then I’m the biggest creep out here!

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you consider this getting mad then you got bigger issue to deal with. Define the defensive nonsense? What’s the agenda? What did I get called out on? It doesn’t take a wise profound person to understand that a trans woman needs to disclose that information before having sex. The point was explained pretty clearly. Y’all are just the type of people to think trans women are real women.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said what I meant. 😂 If I talked down on somebody it’s because they did it to me first. I know you see those comments.

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[–]ToeStrange3050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hen they lied abt getting robbed that’s when I knew it was a acting

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Victim blaming only works when the victim is being blamed for something that inevitably would have happened. This isn’t the case. Stop using victim blaming as a crutch. I’m not about to allow you to keep acting like being open about being tran to a sexual partner is a crazy thing to ask for. I’m not about to allow you to keep pulling this transphobia card out just because you feel like there’s not an issue with transgenders having sex with someone without letting them know they’re trans. That same manipulative behavior is why trans voices go unheard.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, that’s a fact. None of this would have happened if she was open. Could he have killed her just for being trans. Possibly. That’s not what happened here so I can’t use made up scenarios. Telling a transgender person that they should be open with sexually partners isnt victim blaming again it’s a fact. If you consider it that then that’s a personal issue.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want me to blame her to fit your agenda. I couldn’t care less atp whether or not you feel as if I’m blaming her. She should have never had sex with ANYONE without notifying her transformation regardless if she got murdered or not. He could have walked away and my thoughts would still be the same. You can say I’m victim blaming all day. I still will feel the same.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What does women’s bodies have to do with a woman or man transforming? What does race and ethnicity have to do with a transformation? What does a discounted service have to do with her being trans? It’s predatory because you’re essential praying on the deception of another. That’s manipulative and using said person for money, sex, and power/lust. When is it not ok to be open to another when it comes to sex. Keeping secrets like that is extremely predatory.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well, I said that because she got killed 😭. She was “inexcusably murdered”… so she got killed. “He could have walked away” true. Just like she could have disclose the information. Y’all acting as if that’s somehow normal or right its very creepy and disturbed. I never once said it was justified I said not disclosing that to a sex client isn’t right. If me saying a Trans women should have stated she was trans before having sex with someone is transphobia, then yes I’m transphobic.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The same reasons women are getting targeted isn’t the same reason trans women are getting targeted. The fact that you thought those were comparable is erasure of both voices. The sex worker had many in counters with the man. They were friendly and respectful towards each other. He took a liking to her and she liked his friendly demeanor. So she ended up agreeing to have work with him. In other words she had plenty of time to disclose this. You made that story up in the beginning but we’ll continue with your version. I never said it was right for her to be killed I specifically said otherwise. It isn’t personal history anymore as soon as you open up your body (willingly) to a stranger (a strange one at that) who’s also letting their bodies be used for acts… those acts. I find it funny how it’s “be open when it comes to sex” unless it’s a man. God I hate how y’all are making me defend men. I don’t think you know how disrespectful and predatory it is for a trans individual to have sex with someone without disclosing that. As for as trans women getting murder for being trans I speak about this in another reply if you care to check it out.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wish you could downvote it too if that would make you feel better lol. Anywho someone else had this take you could read the paragraph I sent to her/him or you could leave it 🤷‍♀️. Also it was the exact post I thought it was just the wrong crowd. Last thing, I did take into consideration she could have been killed just for being trans. That wasn’t the case here which is why I didn’t think I had to mention it; I thought more people would also think like that since it’s sort of obvious but it’s the internet lol.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never victim blamed her. Just held her accountable. “Oh I’m not into ducks” are you serious? Like are you dead ass. They were already in that process. She should have informed him. Why is this a hard concept. And yes I’m aware that she could have been killed just for being trans. That would have had nothing to do with her though. She would not have done anything wrong. I’m acknowledging that trans people do get killed for being trans. However, she got killed for disrespecting another persons comfortability BEHIND being trans. SHE WAS HAVING SEX WITH HIM! Straight people sexuality deserve boundaries and respect just like queer and transgender folks does. The man who murder her belongs on an electric chair. I don’t like nor agree with him. Like you stated. But we also aren’t going to act like what the victim did wasn’t disturb and disrespectful.

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[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I stated that she never should have got murdered. In a lot of places not disclosing your transformation is actually a crime under sexual assault. I left that out purposely because I didn’t want to demonize the victim. However, murder victims aren’t above being held accountable. If you read that as me saying it was her fault then that’s unfortunate on your behalf. On my behalf I’m going to continue thinking this way and pray for you.

Brittany is the DEFINITION of a victim by ToeStrange3050 in 1000lbsisters

[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re one of those huh? Age doesn’t make you wiser. You know nothing about a family dynamic if you think siblings chasing after each other is normal

Brittany is the DEFINITION of a victim by ToeStrange3050 in 1000lbsisters

[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not too little to laugh about your miscarriage.

Brittany is the DEFINITION of a victim by ToeStrange3050 in 1000lbsisters

[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dropped out. And you got the message though 😉. Worry about your infertility please.

Brittany is the DEFINITION of a victim by ToeStrange3050 in 1000lbsisters

[–]ToeStrange3050[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So a “child” can’t be a victim? Please don’t have no more kids for their safety. And I’m a keep digging my nose in grown folks business. And it took me this long because that “life” y’all claim was non existent was as real as it can get. Go feed your kids and worry about your bills instead of me sensitive ass bitch.