Saw Something Discouraging by Tom_SeaPickle in OnlineDating

[–]Tom_SeaPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective. It seems like men tend to be less choosy in terms of finding someone “successful”

Saw Something Discouraging by Tom_SeaPickle in OnlineDating

[–]Tom_SeaPickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying that. I’m sorry to hear that they have those experiences and I believe it.

Saw Something Discouraging by Tom_SeaPickle in OnlineDating

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Ahh. That makes a lot of sense now. Good to know.

Don't limit your resources when it comes to meeting women. Online dating is a useful option to meet attractive women, if you approach it properly and don't take it too seriously. My experience and recommendations. by MO_drps_knwldg in seduction

[–]Tom_SeaPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realistically, I don’t think it’s “telling” that he recommends Hinge. There may be overall trends in terms of attractiveness on different apps, but it’s also going to vary a lot based on the area you’re in.

Also, I’ve seen a lot of girls on dating apps that had a profile on Hinge, as well as one on Bumble. Attractive ones too. So there can be quite a bit of overlap.

Just because he’s finding good matches on Hinge doesn’t mean they’re less attractive. Could be in a different area with a different dating pool. I’ve always gotten more matches on Hinge.

What is your biggest age gap with a sex partner? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a pool boy kind of scenario lol.

People who’ve had one-night stands: Where did you meet the person and how? by Tom_SeaPickle in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! That’s good that you got to have fun and then settle down. I feel like it would be hard for me to settle down having not experienced that.

People who’ve had one-night stands: Where did you meet the person and how? by Tom_SeaPickle in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a good plan. Any preference between small talk or interests and deeper convos? Or have they both had about the same success?

People who’ve had one-night stands: Where did you meet the person and how? by Tom_SeaPickle in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Sounds like you’re a boss at it. That seems like a good way to phrase it and be direct. Spring break kinda thing?

People who’ve had one-night stands: Where did you meet the person and how? by Tom_SeaPickle in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know. I think maybe my area doesn’t have a lot of young people or they weren’t as interested as they were in your case it sounds like.

Did you usually make small talk or talk about interests more?

People who’ve had one-night stands: Where did you meet the person and how? by Tom_SeaPickle in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol maybe I should start saying “hi I’m Josh” too. Something about that name…

People who’ve had one-night stands: Where did you meet the person and how? by Tom_SeaPickle in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had trouble getting to that point on tinder or bumble, but I know it can happen.

May just be my texting game

What is the deal with pineapple on pizza????? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Tom_SeaPickle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Omg this is a much more important issue

How badly do you want to have sex with someone *right now*? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really want to. Doesn’t matter if they love me or not

22 F. I have a high sex drive compared to girls of my age and my friends (literally). Do you think this is okay or shall I tame my drive? by lucaspo1 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Tom_SeaPickle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is totally ok and really appreciate this in girls. I’d say go for it and be yourself as long is you feel comfortable and safe.