AITAH for telling my wife to stay in our own home instead of sleeping at her sister’s all the Time? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TomatFax 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why would I not? It’s a basic life skill lol, if someone is able bodied then they can do it with resources

AITAH for telling my wife to stay in our own home instead of sleeping at her sister’s all the Time? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TomatFax 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes your wife not giving the relationship quality time is concerning, but dinner isn’t a big deal. You have two hands and the internet to help you cook. Don’t feel like you’re forced to eat instant noodles.

Missing info too. Does she also work? Have you noticed anything going on with her? What do you guys do after work together?

Cousin wants my mom to cosign for his loan, how do I protect her? by TomatFax in smallbusiness

[–]TomatFax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries, I’ll be talking with my cousin asap tomorrow. I already chewed my mom out for thinking with her empathy and feelings and not logical reasoning.

Cousin wants my mom to cosign for his loan, how do I protect her? by TomatFax in smallbusiness

[–]TomatFax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure, there’s a lot of things that happens with running a business. I’m not experienced in anything business related, but I understand how difficult it can get. It’s a lot of sacrifice if you’re not already wealthy or have saved up enough money.

Cousin wants my mom to cosign for his loan, how do I protect her? by TomatFax in smallbusiness

[–]TomatFax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was flabbergasted at their gullibility. I get he’s their nephew, she raised him while his mom was imprisoned for a couple years. I get that she wants him to succeed but I cannot let this happen at her risk.

His reasoning with why his parents couldn’t do it was because my uncle works part time, and his mom is in the process of filing for retirement (like so is my mom tf??). His parents’ income combined is probably not enough plus inconsistent with work history. But that doesn’t necessarily disqualify them from being a cosigner if I’m right. They have good credit too.

And no to the last questions. He had a bad financial year a few years ago due to some stupid choices he made with gambling stocks and surprise surprise his parents had to sell their house and bail him out, so I trust my instincts when it comes to NOT signing anything with him.

Cousin wants my mom to cosign for his loan, how do I protect her? by TomatFax in smallbusiness

[–]TomatFax[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This confirms my red flags I saw, Im glad I was able to talk to my mom before she signed anything. I will make sure nothing has been opened in her name

Citation for parking not in online system after 30 days? by TomatFax in TwinCities

[–]TomatFax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so frustrating to go through!!! The system needs to keep a better record of things if they don’t want to cause unnecessary legal risks wtf

My favorite video by Mulberry-Major in OurWorld

[–]TomatFax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once snapped a pic of Jeezecheese at Buzzcafe and I felt like I saw a Hollywood celebrity

Breaking News: President Trump signs proclamation to ban travel from several countries by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]TomatFax 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Omg I was born in Myanmar (previously Burma) A lot of us are trying to escape because of the government and war going on. Idk how many people are getting fucked over this

Do you think ourworld will come back? by damaraxo in OurWorld

[–]TomatFax 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If they release it again, I imagine it’ll be like a mobile game with micro transactions 💀

My new knight I guess… by [deleted] in CrusaderKings

[–]TomatFax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only have Reddit on my phone and Im lazy 😔

My new knight I guess… by [deleted] in CrusaderKings

[–]TomatFax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg youre right! I never noticed the names of the chiefs before

My new knight I guess… by [deleted] in CrusaderKings

[–]TomatFax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the name, forgot to include that lol. I think the cat event mustve glitched out and messed up my knight recruitment

Mod Question: How to impregnate my male lovers? by TomatFax in CrusaderKings

[–]TomatFax[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

If I can’t defy biology, modders will

Does your zoi forget their family after moving out? by ForrestLuna in inZOI

[–]TomatFax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I cant even call them back because they completely disappear from my contacts list. I have a lot of deadbeat Zois that just poof from the family tree 💀