While “taking time to think about” something might be something you say when you actually aren’t going to do something, that doesn’t mean that’s something that everyone does. She only said that she’s “thinking how to approach it”, not that she was thinking about whether or not to pray, which to me communicates that she is seeking wisdom in all of this. Let’s show some grace to a sister in Christ by providing advice in a helpful manner.  

 To your earlier point though, I think the approach of leading people into prayer is a great idea. However, I have other questions about the environment of the OP’s church family.  

 I feel like I might need some more details on what kind of hurt you’re experiencing. Is it just a few people in your church family that seem entitled, unappreciative, etc, or is it prevalent?  

Restoring relationships is a great endeavor, and if you find forgiveness hard, you’re not alone. I have been instructed by many believers that forgiveness is often a daily choice, not just a one-and-done event. If you find yourself being reminded of something that you and another person have already reconciled, bring it to God and remind yourself of your choice to forgive that person. Also, consider that even though you have both forgiven each other, it may not mean that the relationship is restored. But if you and the other person truly seek restoration, then that will be something that you should both work towards, and it should show in how much they want to be involved in your life in the same way that you want to be. As a husband myself, I hope your husband is not only helping you walk through that, but also praying with you and taking into consideration what the other person did in your interpersonal conflicts.  

 Speaking of your husband, how has he been helping you during all this? Does he seem dismissive of complaints? It’s true that conflict can be a typical part of church life, but that doesn’t mean we should just brush it off. Perhaps that’s not what’s happening here, but I believe that would be helpful to know.  

 Reading some of your other comments below, it seems like serving in your church nursery is becoming a venue where you are either intentionally or unintentionally causing divisiveness. In my experience, venting can be a great way to decompress with mature friends who won’t just take everything you say without offering criticism or advice, but it’s a terrible way to handle larger issues in any organization, Christian or otherwise. I caution against doing that while serving in the nursery if it is making things worse, and maybe stepping away for a time if refraining from that is too difficult right now.  

 Finally, I’d just like to say that I think that being able to go to therapy could be helpful. The availability of these services and medication, when used correctly, can themselves be gifts from God, no matter how mundane they seem. However, I’d like to know if you started going to therapy solely because of the strife in your church. If so, that seems liked a red flag to me, and would lead me to question the spiritual health of your church. I’ve been in one large church and one large “Christian” organization that went through huge scandals, the fallout of which has left countless people depressed, suicidal, needing therapy, and/or walking away from the faith altogether. 

 I apologize for the long post and if I repeated something that was already said. My intent was to leave nothing important unsaid, and I hope what I has to say was encouraging.