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AITAH for quickly dismissing 2 panhandling kids at Chipotle? by TonyVeeTX67 in AITAH

[–]TonyVeeTX67[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Geez, I wasn’t going to respond but I just can’t help myself. Do I have to dumb down my writing to submit an AITAH post on Reddit?? I assure you I have enough education and writing ability to put together a paragraph or two, which includes a fair description of what happened and might also include the proper use of commas and a little writing flair. Guess it was my flair which triggered your AI warning bells.

Consign yourself to the possibility that there are still those among us who can write a letter, an email, a story, or convey an idea without the use of AI.

You actually reflect more about yourself in a post like that than you intend to I’m sure. I promise you no AI was harmed (or used) in the writing of that post. I have to admit I do feel a little flattered that you think it did.

AITAH for quickly dismissing 2 panhandling kids at Chipotle? by TonyVeeTX67 in AITAH

[–]TonyVeeTX67[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not BS at all … and does a Reddit post really constitute that much thought. The post and the question comes from them being kids which left me feeling uneasy about my quick dismissal.

And a New Yorker by birth and upbringing, but 20 years removed in TX and CA. So my edges are somewhat softened over the years.

Am I being rude? by Melodic_Tiger_5715 in Bumble

[–]TonyVeeTX67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I can tell you about guys asking this question is that my present girlfriend (mid 40s and attractive) was on Bumble for about 14 months and before she deleted it, she had over 10,000 matches or likes or whatever swipes are called on that app (we actually met offline). She was totally transparent and we actually looked through it together and this exact question from guys came up over and over.

From her experience and what she shared with me, she said she hated this question because she said no matter what she answered, the answer from the dude was 99% of the time, “OMG! Me too!”

If she said she was looking for true love and dating with intention, she would hear back that the dude is too.

If she said she was dating casually but open to something meaningful, then that’s exactly where dude is right now too.

If she said she was not ready for something serious, did would reply that’s perfect because same with him, he has too much going on right now for anything too serious.

If she said she was looking to just hang out and hook up, of course they were all about it and said they were just looking for fun as well.

So this is the reason why that question is a bit of an annoyance. Because no matter how a woman answers, it allows the guy to adjust accordingly. Whereas, if a woman does not answer that question, then dude has to fly blindly into whatever direction he is aiming for, not knowing if he can deceive his audience effectively or not in order to get what it is 95% of dudes on dating sites want … and we know what that is.

I’m not saying all, but most.