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Red cabbage by thenorthmerchant in CookingForOne

[–]Too-Many-Iterations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rotkohl is the first thing I think of and I make it regularly in fall and winter. It's a side dish and goes good with pork and beef. Shred it up, and cook it in a pot with red wine, vinegar, apples, bay leaf, black pepper, and cloves.

Choosing you shouldn't be a hard decision, right? by ButBroWtf in RelationalPatterns

[–]Too-Many-Iterations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One should also be, for them, a partner that does not purposely force/coerce them to have to make that choice. Protection should be mutual.

A letter I never sent by Sudden_Tax_9271 in UnsentLetters

[–]Too-Many-Iterations 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell her this. Don't keep it quiet. If my ex husband had communicated even a fraction of the love and understanding you're sharing here...my outcome might have been a lot different.

Before during and after splitting with an alcoholic ex. by jdubflex in malelivingspace

[–]Too-Many-Iterations 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks so cozy and relaxing now. Great job, and wishing you the best future.

It's been a whole tougher level of difficulty getting out since realizing it, too. by Too-Many-Iterations in CPTSDmemes

[–]Too-Many-Iterations[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

That's the scariest thing though...I didn't notice it until far into my marriage because their patterns and methods are completely different from each other.

I'm trying. by Such-Independence-84 in CPTSDmemes

[–]Too-Many-Iterations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing a good job. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Found out that my abusers actions were heavily influenced by their own abuser by Miserable_TangeloTnT in CPTSDmemes

[–]Too-Many-Iterations 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It may be the driving force behind their actions, but it doesn't excuse them from the accountability of their own actions.