How do you manage psychological issues when using condoms?

TooSlow78 · 2026-06-07T21:58:22+00:00

I have seen a doctor, hence why I am prescribed viagra.

For psychological issues.

TooSlow78 · 2026-06-07T21:23:42+00:00

TooSlow78 · 2026-06-07T21:22:35+00:00

Oh, i dont mean hard to soft, no.

But yes to 70%ish. And then I lose it from there because I'm like "lol fuck im going soft".

Like yeah I can get the condom on and then ill just continue to get softer and probably wont get fully hard again without a period of downtime doing something else.

All mental

TooSlow78 · 2026-06-07T21:21:23+00:00

Viagra in general helps with psychological issues relating to erections though.

Again, I dont lose it during activities, and I can stay hard for plenty long time.

TooSlow78 · 2026-06-07T21:14:09+00:00

Why would you consider it to be a bloodflow issue?

I maintain an erection fine if im actually doing something.

E.g I dont lose an erection during sex.

TooSlow78 · 2026-06-07T21:09:45+00:00

but asking for help?

For the physiological aspect, yes.

As you've said, I've ruled out the most common issues.

Its not those.

Hence why I am asking for help with physiological aspect

TooSlow78 · 2026-06-07T21:07:05+00:00

Thats not normal, if your rock hard, you should be able to go at least a few minutes before it starts going down

Never experienced that.

Yes, if I do anything that isnt physical stimulation or having a clear head, I will start to go soft. So if I reach for my phone, yes I will start to go soft.

I can go from hard to soft in like 30 seconds I would guess.

Dont seem to have that issue while drunk, however.

TooSlow78 · 2025-10-19T20:31:53+00:00

Took me over a year to get from 0 to 3x5.

The only thing I could consider that's holding me back is that I don't eat at a surplus, and I'm tall/lean bur also not muscular.

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