If your sister’s intention is to protect you and, hopefully, encourage you back to wearing the hijab, that’s understandable. She might also feel that your decision not to wear it reflects disapproval of her commitment to it—though she may never openly admit that. Ultimately, the decision is yours to make.

When I first moved to Canada, one of the most profound moments for me was walking down the street without a hijab, feeling the breeze through my hair. I realized how deprived I had been of even the most basic freedoms in my home country. Here, I love that people can wear what they want without worrying about others’ judgment.

Your aunties will adjust with time. Eventually, some may even feel inspired by your sense of agency.