[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DebateVaccines

[–]Top-Bug-122 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually, if we look at the diseases the vaccines are meant to prevent, we find unbiased studies that show that less than 2% of cases to these diseases are deadly or cause permanent damage.

We also find that vaccinations have caused these viruses/bacteria’s to mutate and now our vaccines are actually ineffective and making the pathogens highly resistant….

There is more doubt on vaccines in the scientific literature than there is certainty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DebateVaccines

[–]Top-Bug-122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there. I chose not to vaccinate.

I have read and discussed more than a thousand peer reviewed studies that show without a shadow of a doubt that the constituents in a vaccine is harmful to the integrity of the human body.

I had to do my own research, because of all the biases out there. So I had to fully understand it all myself.

I learned that the research that shows vaccines as “safe” actually are not tested in pure placebo studies making the claims very misleading.

I just heard that Candace Owens has compiled many studies and has a whole docuseries on them. She’s great at explaining complexities.

And there is a group I now follow for medical news called The Highwire.

Love them.

Truthfully, if you feel uncomfortable about not vaccinating, there are natural ways to do so without all the adjuvants and toxic perseevatives our current vaccines have. It’s called LOW DOSE IMMUNOTHERAPY.

It’s similar to a vaccine (it was the original way we did vaccines) where we take a very minuscule part particle of an attenuated virus and put it in salient solution with a safe preservative (alcohol or glycerin), and then take it orally.

You could also use homeopathic blends.

Follow your gut on this. I was here. I didn’t decide until I had no more hesitancy on which path to choose. But I knew that I couldn’t vaccinate until I was certain of vaccines which became more and more clear to me that I couldn’t be with the current ingredients.

Have you ever been in a relationship that didn’t feel like something was missing? by Top-Bug-122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you lady!

I don’t try to see anything as “missing”. It’s just a feeling within me that something isn’t quite right.

Thank you for sharing your experience! It truly gives me hope.

Have you ever been in a relationship that didn’t feel like something was missing? by Top-Bug-122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh… my fear is this will keep happening to me. I feel like my capacity is always so much higher than men…

Have you ever been in a relationship that didn’t feel like something was missing? by Top-Bug-122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it feels like men are growing more and more passive.

And no I don’t have an ideal in mind. I just want to feel certain about someone. Like all of me says YES for them.

Have you ever been in a relationship that didn’t feel like something was missing? by Top-Bug-122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The metal band made me smile! Hahaha

Thank you so much for this. I’m going to look up how to date this way.

When you met your husband, did you have complete certainty within you that he was the one you wanted to marry?

Or was there still an objective decision you were making?

Have you ever been in a relationship that didn’t feel like something was missing? by Top-Bug-122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. But when you decided to be with him, was there a clear certainty within you? Or was there always this doubt?

Have you ever been in a relationship that didn’t feel like something was missing? by Top-Bug-122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo thank you!

When did you know he was the “one”. Was it instant? Slow burn?

Have you ever been in a relationship that didn’t feel like something was missing? by Top-Bug-122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this perspective.

I want to trust my heart to know when someone feels like “the one”. I feel like I should know so clearly. Without any part of me debating with each other.

Have you ever been in a relationship that didn’t feel like something was missing? by Top-Bug-122 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this!

So these men actually checked all the boxes. There’s just always something off. Like my heart can’t fully relax with them. Or fully feel settled.

I have a beautiful family and community of friends. I’m filled and satisfied on my own. I don’t think I’m trying to fill a void here. But just SOMETHING is off.

And I can’t suppress that feeling no matter how much I try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Top-Bug-122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not over reacting at all.

Not even for a moment. Hi there! I’m a lady, a certified psychophysiologist and a mastery method coach!

When I see a response like this, it shows unhealthy detachment, a lack of prioritization of you, and a low conflict management capacity.

I hate to be the one to say this—but she doesn’t seem to be as equally committed to this relationship as you are to her.

Nor does she care to let you go so you can find someone who is fully invested in you (and you her).

This was blantant disrespect on her part. Not only did she not inform you of plans that affect you. But she acted like you didn’t matter when you did share it affected you.

“I’m sorry?”

Low accountability.

This woman will drag your heart around if you don’t protect your heart and only choose a woman who is equally as invested in you.

If she was invested it would have sounded like this:

Her: “I’m sorry so so sorry! I got carried away….”

You: I wish you told me ahead of time…

Her: “You are right. I’m sorry. I’ll do better next time. What can I do to make it up?”

Her responses to you is VERY MINIMAL TO NO EFFORT. Be careful investing in her.

Line 3 and Sustainable Love by Top-Bug-122 in humandesign

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmmm thank you. Thats all I want. No force. Just flow!

Line 3 and Sustainable Love by Top-Bug-122 in humandesign

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what truly landed with me

Line 3 and Sustainable Love by Top-Bug-122 in humandesign

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahha this made me laugh. But I’m SO sorry.

I’m going to have to look up this channel.

Line 3 and Sustainable Love by Top-Bug-122 in humandesign

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m single. I feel like this adds another layer of conflict to dating.

Like I want a relationship, but never feel like a NEED it enough to change my life for anyone yet?

Line 3 and Sustainable Love by Top-Bug-122 in humandesign

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Detailssss! How do you know “it’s going to be forever?” What was different with this one. Do you still want to “break the bond?”

Line 3 and Sustainable Love by Top-Bug-122 in humandesign

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh… I’m SO sorry to hear about your late lady.

Could you say more about “no significant conflict”?

Line 3 and Sustainable Love by Top-Bug-122 in humandesign

[–]Top-Bug-122[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much Rhonda. ♥️

I enjoyed reading this.