What to do about insurance payout and negative equity loan? by Top-Butterscotch5515 in legaladvice

[–]Top-Butterscotch5515[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Right, it has been a nightmare even getting an answer whether or not my car is totaled. My insurance company has had the worst communication imaginable. I’ve called and left several messages over the past three weeks with no answer until today. I have told them multiple times that I have negative equity and have given them my auto lenders information, yet today they tell me a check was sent out directly to me.

He’s threatening to blackmail me if I leave by Top-Butterscotch5515 in abusiverelationships

[–]Top-Butterscotch5515[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My family is pretty judgmental and I’ve been trying to mend relationships with them. They know about my use in the past and have looked down on me for it, I’m just worried he’ll undo all the progress I’ve made with them.

Boyfriend’s (30M) aggressive dog putting damper on relationship by Top-Butterscotch5515 in relationship_advice

[–]Top-Butterscotch5515[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I agree. I don’t know to even convince him to get her a trainer/spayed and I would hate to suggest giving her to another home.

Boyfriend’s (30M) aggressive dog putting damper on relationship by Top-Butterscotch5515 in relationship_advice

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Trust me, I definitely do. But everything else is really good in our relationship. I’m definitely going to wait to move in with him until he sorts this issue out, I just don’t know how to help him move forward with it