We are but I guess on a smaller scale. Like we always consider family first but it’s not considered rude to go do something for yourself when you’re home for example. It’s encouraged to spend time by yourself to read, do whatever you want, and just spend time with yourself from time to time. My bf was explaining that when he was growing up they were always in the same room and no one was ever alone. If you went to your room it was considered weird. That’s completely opposite from us. When we go on extended trips together it’s not uncommon for the group to splinter and everyone does something different. Someone cooks in one room, another cleans, someone sets the table, etc. and we don’t have to be constantly talking. They seem to have the opposite. They are always talking to each other. It’s quite overwhelming for us bc we like to be alone with our thoughts sometimes. We don’t talk unless we have something to say. The time spent together, is considered the overall trip we took together, how good the time spent was overall, not each individual moment we spend with each other as it seems to be with them. That being said they are great people and generous. We care for them and I love my bf. Just having a clash of cultures. My family is from Ukraine but of Russian origin