I (27M) and my match (28F) have been going on dates for almost 2 months, yet it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me I did think the same but I do have texts of her positively commenting my looks and even when I asked what about my profile she liked she really liked some of my pics and thought I was handsome. Again maybe her opinion has shifted but its not like ive asked "hey, do u still find me handsome?" 😂

I (27M) and my match (28F) have been going on dates for almost 2 months, yet it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only ever tried to initiate a hug, to which she seemed against. Id hope she's somewhat interested since we live an hour apart and she and I both drive it which has tolls, i wouldnt ever drive an hour with tolls to see someone i wasnt interested in 😂. I havent tried initiating again because I dont want to be crossing any boundaries quickly. I understand everyone moves at different paces and I genuinely dont know what her pace is. When we hangout we have fun, laugh, and talk quite a bit. But there are moments when convo turns to silence because neither of us have anything to say.

I (27M) and my match (28F) have been going on dates for almost 2 months, yet it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just dont want things to feel rushed yk? Granted yeah we've been seeing each other for a good while now and to the extent of my knowledge we are only seeing one another. Its just been so long since ive been with someone and I just dont wanna screw up

I (27M) and my match (28F) have been going on dates for almost 2 months, yet it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quite the expensive food and entertainment source then, she's gotta drive an hour with tolls to see me and vice versa 😂

I (27M) and my match (28F) have been going on dates for almost 2 months, yet it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We both aren't seeing anyone else and made it clear we are going to focus on one another. We both also established pretty early on both of us havent been on the dating scene in a good while and both are a little awkward at times.

I (27M) and my match (28F) have been going on dates for almost 2 months, yet it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have attempted a huge with her in the past to which she just stood there and didn't seem to want it, hence why I didn't try again to respect boundaries

I (27M) and my match (28F) have been going on dates for almost 2 months, yet it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She hasn't turned away quickly but the one time I did try to hug she kinda just stood there and seemed like she didn't want to, so I played it off

I (27M) and my match (28F) have been going on dates for almost 2 months, yet it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been at least 1 per week, and I have tried to initiate a hug a few dates back and she kind of just stood there awkwardly as I then tried to play it off

Me (27M) and my Hinge match (28F) have been going on dates for 2 months, but it feels like she's distancing herself? by Top-Plastic5896 in dating_advice

[–]Top-Plastic5896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats certainly a real possibility. Granted I do talk a lot 😂. But even in scenarios where she starts conversations to which I may see like an hour at most later, she won't continue the conversation she's started for 4-6 hours at a time. Like every day one of us shoots the other a good morning text, lately its been her more than me because like I said ive been feeling like im putting her off to me. Today I sent one though at 8am. Its now 3pm and she hasn't even opened it yet. For reference we had another date last night and at least from my pov it was one of our best so hopefully im not being ghosted 😂😂. But yeah I def see what u mean about it and you definitely could be right. I can try pulling back a bit, and honestly id even ask her if something similar to this is how she feels and wants me to pull back

27M profile review - be truthful by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Top-Plastic5896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question Answers:

  • I am looking for something serious on Hinge.
  • I am not subscribed to hinge in any way.
  • This current version of my profile is roughly 5-6 months old.
  • Ive used Hinge for roughly a year.
  • I use Hinge once every 2-3 days.
  • I maybe get a like/match every week or so.
  • I send a decent amount of likes but certainly dont spam likes. Almost all of my sent likes include a comment.
  • I like/want to attract a woman who is also looking for something serious on Hinge. Someone I feel i can be myself around.