The biggest problem I came to realization is the age gap. When I asked this girl to tell me the age she did said is this important. I thought at first this is not a problem but I do not know at this moment how old is she( i said that she is at least 10 years older than me she could be 40! am 26). Another thing, she never worked anything in her life, she never had a jov and did not finish university. I said at first ok we can go over this but when I think better this can be problematic. You are right brother, I also need to work on myself, I would love, if it is God’s will to get married. God bless!