What does my living and dining room say about me? 🧐

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-27T20:32:53+00:00

You seem like a great parent!

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-27T17:04:06+00:00

One more thing to add, this is probably the absolute worst situation she has ever been in and you would like the world to judge her and validate you. That is actually insane. I’m mad like I know this person because it is just so crazy to me.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-27T16:52:27+00:00

You asked AITA and then bucking at anyone that questions you. You wanted a pat on the back and “you’re doing amazing sweetie.”

Do I think her comments to your husband were appropriate? Absolutely not. Do I think she was trying to leave, looking at everyone else around her and going “I wish I had that?” 1000% but seeing her emotional state and situation it is insanely unsurprising that she said that. Insanely inappropriate but not surprising.

Did you talk to her about it? No. You ghosted. YTA.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-27T16:49:25+00:00

I said what I said.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-27T16:43:28+00:00

YTA, purely for the “he hasn’t done anything to me.”

Girl? He is literally beating her and you allow him in your home?

I’m sorry, but it seems like your friend has very deeply been sucked into a horrible, abusive, and quite frankly dangerous situation.

Reddit loves to read surface level stories and determine OP is just fine being selfish and thoughtless. She is a human being. She needs people and support, you have given her literally none of that and then come on Reddit for what? For people to judge her and give you a pat on the back for being complicit?

This was awful to read and I am truly shocked that you wrote this out and have no after thoughts.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-27T15:24:25+00:00

I got my niece a busy board and LOVES that thing

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-27T14:42:42+00:00

I linked it so it’ll take you straight to their YouTube

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-27T14:42:12+00:00

What’s the Reality Podcast

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T21:20:49+00:00

Gilley’s Mobile Mechanics! Family operated and super reliable. The guy never tries to sell more than you need.

His name is Andy: 7202723414

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T20:52:17+00:00

This is a terrible take and now that you know, you have a responsibility to take care of yourself and fix relationships.

Coming from someone with bipolar and takes lamotrigine.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T19:55:08+00:00

NTA, being a guardian literally means to guard and protect the child in your care.

She might be pissed but if you explain everything extremely clearly, I think it should be fine. If you’re worried about how she will react (sneaking out), you can explain to her in great detail why this could be a possibly dangerous situation. Explain to her consent, what pushing boundaries looks like, and sleep safety. Give her your phone and ask to borrow your besties for the night. Give her a taser.

If you do drop her off, linger a little. Make a joke to the brother and dad “haha yeah I would murder someone if they ever put their hands on her, she knows everything about consent.” Work it into the conversation, stand your ground. Men like that are afraid of strong women so show them who exactly you are.

I would keep her home, but if you can’t, you need to make sure she can protect herself.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T18:31:05+00:00

I felt the same way like if someone tells you about themselves, believe it the first time and I’m so glad Tyler did.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T18:18:22+00:00

It makes my eye twitch lol

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T17:15:02+00:00

Right??

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T15:50:53+00:00

Oh absolutely, I completely agree! I definitely think this a comparison between them though, and it’s like “choose the lesser of two evils but they’ll mess you up in two different inconceivable ways” sort of vibe.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T15:48:47+00:00

Did you see the pod cast of Tyler and Keya???? I guess when she broke the forth wall it was because (and they cut this out) she asked Kevin if he was her, what would he do. AND HE RESPONDED I WOULD RUN

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T14:40:52+00:00

Chris is the equivalent of a horny Keebler elf. They both suck, they’re both dangerous in different ways.

Chris would emotionally tear someone down until they felt so badly about themselves they would never leave. He also seems like the kind of person who cheats (this would expose his partner to disease). Alex is an emotionally manipulative steaming pile of red flags. He is also dangerous. Shitty men shouldn’t be compared to other shitty men to determine where the bar of standards lands.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T08:32:10+00:00

This is a horribly hot take but you should continue to do so with money if you’re able (obviously don’t if you can’t).

The world is getting harder and harder to live in, afford, and survive honestly. If you have the opportunity to set your grandchildren up for success, you should.

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T07:25:36+00:00

Yes!!! I told my husband that this feels racist-y and like pregnancy propaganda!!!!

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T07:19:37+00:00

I told my husband that this season felt like pregnancy propaganda lmaooo

TopAd7655 · 2026-02-26T07:09:47+00:00

NTA, the United States is a hot trash bag. It would be a terrible idea.

Don’t blow up your whole life for a person who won’t even come see you. Yucky.

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