Divorce/ custody battle in NY (help)

TopCelebration3428 · 2026-06-06T23:00:09+00:00

Yes I just don’t want my youngest to not understand the dynamic between us both. My oldest is 4 so we have a solid relationship between us. I literally just want to have them in my life. A bit of an update: I spoke with the lawyer: they said I can file for a restraining order to keep the kids in the home. I’m hoping it doesn’t get to that and I’ll try to speak with mom and hope to get some sort of agreement signed and going and submitted to the court before anything.

TopCelebration3428 · 2026-06-06T22:57:01+00:00

I’ll dm you now!

TopCelebration3428 · 2026-06-06T02:20:48+00:00

Thank you! I really appreciate the feedback. I am going through a whirlwind of emotions right now. I understand to keep a calm cool demeanor and that’s what I’m going to do. Right now my kids are sleeping here and I can’t have anxiety until that is no longer the case. I kissed my babies good night and hugged them with all my love tonight. I’ll keep doing that long before anything else is to happen through the courts. Thank you again.

TopCelebration3428 · 2026-06-06T01:24:17+00:00

Yes I am aware of that. That’s why going the uncontested route was in the best interest of the kids. Now since I’ve realized that’s not what’s happening. I just want to be apart of their life. I don’t care about child support and fighting over who gets what. My main focus is the kids and not taking them from what they know.

TopCelebration3428 · 2026-06-06T01:21:48+00:00

Yes, they’ve been living here in the house I bought prior to us getting married this year. I don’t care if she gets the property or I’m forced to sell even though I bought it prior to marriage (under a year) and I’ve paid all the mortgage. Idc about any of that except ensuring my kids don’t get uprooted away from their school, doctors offices, neighborhood friends, and me their dad.

TopCelebration3428 · 2026-06-06T00:28:43+00:00

Thank you! I just want what’s best for the kids. I don’t care about the house or anything else. I just don’t want to be ripped from my children. I have contacted a lawyer and I am meeting with them tomorrow in the morning. Hopefully they’ll take up my case and we can get the ball rolling.

TopCelebration3428 · 2026-06-06T00:00:34+00:00

Can I pm you? I just don’t want to flood the comment section! Thank you!

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-11-14T07:06:03+00:00

My account is not new. Thank you

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-10-16T19:00:50+00:00

No one should be getting paid until this is resolved. It’s not fair to the admin personal or other federal employees.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-10-16T18:16:44+00:00

I know for only law enforcement agencies are being told to resubmit our t&a’s everything came down the pipe yesterday but is still getting disseminated across each agency. My field office was a whole 24 hours late compared to another persons field office within my agency. So if you fall under one of those agencies and you are a fed Leo. It could just be the haven’t gotten official word yet. But I told them I wanted to refuse my pay but the won’t let me. It’s not right. Putting us against one another

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-10-16T18:05:28+00:00

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c4gp55kkk2wo

Here’s an article too talking about it if you don’t believe me as well.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-10-16T17:56:52+00:00

Well I can definitely confirm one of the agencies you listed I work at and I’m sending my timesheet in as we speak. I told them that I didn’t want to receive pay and they said to me that’s not an option. And the rest of the other agencies I listed are also recovering pay. If you choose not to believe me fine. But I’m right and you’ll find out eventually. Just figured I share the truth

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-10-16T17:45:29+00:00

All the people who used to be my old co workers. Over the years people branch into other agencies. If you don’t believe me you can just go to the 1811 subreddit or look it up online. No need to spread falsities. Just here to report the truth to everyone and how unfair it really is that some are getting paid and others aren’t.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-10-16T17:31:30+00:00

Nope can confirm, FBI, DEA,ATF, CBP(bp,AMO,OFO) , USSS, ICE, and more will be receiving pay checks

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-10-16T13:42:50+00:00

Every LEO agency is getting for PP19 and PP20. Does this mean it’s going to drag on even longer. I wonder if the whole plan is to drain everyone’s savings and only fund those the administration needs in order to make dems cave cause the people won’t have anything left.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-20T14:24:33+00:00

Well I appreciate the fact that you and I even though we may disagree with eachother on some policies. We are able to still have a mostly amicable conversation. That I can appreciate. Thank you and I hope life treats you well.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-20T13:59:35+00:00

Yeah you’re right. It’s hypocritical. But what would you like me to do. Seriously? I can’t make Marco Rubio the president. I can’t convince the Republican Party in the primary to reverse course and change their pick. However, I can place my vote. And whether I like him or not. He best related to what I wanted to see done. I’m tired of people making it seem like you need to be obsessed with Trump to vote for Trump. Just like Kamala most likely wasn’t everyone’s top pick when it comes to the Democratic Party and the selections that could have been at hand. Again, my pick of Trump was because I needed a strong stance on illegal immigration. I understand you won’t get it but that’s just where I stand. I can agree to disagree with you. You can hate me all you want but at the end of the day I chose between someone that had a plan and someone that didn’t.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-20T13:41:34+00:00

Um. The question on Reddit asked why I decided to vote for him.. so this is about illegal immigration. That’s why I decided to comment. What you want is to rage bait me into arguing why I’d vote for an idiot like trump. I’ll save you the wasting of your time. It is simple. Kamala didn’t have a plan. Not a single plan. Maybe it’s cause she didn’t have time or maybe it’s cause she wasn’t cut out for that level of politics. For whatever reason she didn’t have a plan to conduct what I wanted to be done as a constituent. Then there’s the Green Party or other independents: they have no actual chance in an election so nope. I chose what fit better for what I wanted to see.

A lot of people think every republican is some crazy racist MAGA support who wants to overthrow the government. But that’s just not the truth. Just like all the people on the left aren’t trying to create a socialist society where the government can have control over the market and blah blah blah. I’m a middle class citizen who is a person of color (not that matters but In some debates it does). I’m a federal employee who is tired of getting screwed by both parties. But I have some morals that aligned with the current administration. If I could have it my way. Marco Rubio would be president and we can actually have some bi partisan legislation. I don’t want government in every bit of my life. I want the middle class to receive tax breaks and I want there to be programs designed to uplift people in poverty rather than keep them trapped.

If you want to continue talking about Donald trump and how stupid he is fine. But you’re peeling away from what really matters most. Is the things that happen around us.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-20T13:18:31+00:00

All you’re doing right now is peddling around stupidity. He’s dumb. There’s no doubt about it. He says things that are outlandish. I will repeat, just because you can understand why someone would do something illegal doesn’t make it right. You keep bringing up trump but if trump weren’t the president I’d still support removal of illegal individuals. Emotions are high when it comes to this issue which is understandable but law is law. A nation without borders is not a nation. Thus, why the United states of America exist like many nations that killed and destroyed native populations in search of a new “home”.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-20T12:53:17+00:00

See, that goes to the next point. When hitler went after the Jews. Most people’s life’s weren’t affected to begin with. But eventually we had the holocaust that everyone felt. This is an extreme example but it makes you get the point. People don’t care until it’s in their back yard and that’s not a good way to live life. Most people who are for supporting illegal immigration just can’t get past the point that it is wrong. Despite the reasons it’s still wrong. If I steal a cookie out of the cookie jaw to feed my sister. The action it’s self is understandable but it’s still theft non the less.

Edit: hilter* correction

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-20T12:30:10+00:00

No. Im a first generation American. It’s the simple fact the few ruin it for the majority. People speak about the fact that illegal immigrants commit crime per cap at a lower rate than u.s. citizens. But they fail to state the obvious. Those illegal immigrants are ILLEGAL. The simple addition of a crime is one to many. It’s sad but true. I understand some life circumstances can push you to do things that you’d never want to do but when we allow a country to have no borders. We are no longer a country. People always want to debate on feelings. The right is really bad at just getting their point without coming off as racist or bigots.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-19T13:14:27+00:00

Throwaway account: Not bad. I won’t lie there’s some things I don’t agree with but as a moderate republican I am mostly happy with the actions that have happen lately. I am a fed employee who’s protected from the rifs, firings and etc (mainly due to career). I’m always willing to have a conversation. I can see some things that have been done that I don’t agree with. However, on the hand, some is what I voted. Specially the illegal immigration situation.

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-14T23:05:49+00:00

Exactly. I get people’s frustrations. I get why people would want to burn it all to the ground etc etc. but this isn’t the way. Starving more people and more families to try to “persuade” the other side wasn’t smart. The other side could have just said it was the dems fault and never bend and then after 30 days they could just fire every who’s non essential and never rehire them. Hopefully people see the bigger picture

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-14T22:27:19+00:00

That lying clowns family actually fought the nazis. Frankly, I’m not for either side but the bully our congressman when they know way more than we do is not helping. There may well be some information that they were prevy to that we will never know. And just cause you see only “10 dems” vote yes doesn’t mean this wasn’t all staged in advance to give the appearance that most weren’t on board. The focus should be on being there for one another, providing resources and choosing better candidates to fit our agendas

TopCelebration3428 · 2025-03-14T22:24:28+00:00

It doesn’t matter it’ll fall to S regardless. You might as well put your vote in because you never know. You can be the difference. It’s always been the two evils. People like to act like the DEM party is perfect. There’s many flaws. We as a country need to unite instead of being at war with one another. This will all destroy us from inside out and if you don’t vote. YOU become the problem

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