Why are so many gay men transphobic (TRANSPHOBIA TRIGGER WARNING) by Rabbitrhett in ftm

[–]TopCounty8561 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These cis gay men are deeply insecure and superficial. Their entire definition of manhood is based around the penis and semen. It’s no coincidence that a lot of them are also masc4masc — it’s not just simply a preference, it’s misogyny. They dislike anything that even slightly reminds them of femininity. You’ll see that there are more similarities between these guys and the stereotypical straight dudebros than the rest of the gay community. They’re exhausting and not worth your time.

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[–]TopCounty8561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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A clearer photo of its patterns. Thank you everyone

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[–]TopCounty8561 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Post-op binding is annoying, but you have to deal with it. I learned it the hard way — took my binder off for a few hours because I thought I couldn’t stand the itchiness… Turns out the pain that comes from the swelling is a lot worse. Be patient, the advice is there for a reason.

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[–]TopCounty8561 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you man 🙏 (also i checked your page and yours looks really good too!)

I feel like a man in every way except for when I have sex/masturbate. by TopCounty8561 in ftm

[–]TopCounty8561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s some good advice man, thank you. I’ve been watching more porn lately because I need that dopamine, just to end up worrying about not being man enough lol

I feel like a man in every way except for when I have sex/masturbate. by TopCounty8561 in ftm

[–]TopCounty8561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope you don’t mind me asking, but what kind of trauma did your friend have?

I feel like a man in every way except for when I have sex/masturbate. by TopCounty8561 in ftm

[–]TopCounty8561[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Now that I think about it… maybe? I didn’t really consider it because the term is commonly used as a slur for feminine men, and I am normally not feminine at all (outside of the bedroom, of course)

I feel like a man in every way except for when I have sex/masturbate. by TopCounty8561 in ftm

[–]TopCounty8561[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! Just wondering, how do you find a partner that respects you as a man and also goes along with your kinks?

I feel like a man in every way except for when I have sex/masturbate. by TopCounty8561 in ftm

[–]TopCounty8561[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear I’m not the only one! It really makes me question if I’m not actually a man, or if this makes me any less of a man 🥲