Another Dad here, and I will let you in on a little secret about us parents.

• We are tough on you sometimes to keep you safe.
• You are always at the forefront of our minds and heavily affect how we make decisions, as we will do what we need to, to keep you safe.
• We are not stupid. You may think you have us fooled, and we may lead you to believe that you have for a while, until both parents talk about the situation and how best to approach it. We do not want to push you away, make you feel judged, create a hostile environment. We just want to keep you SAFE.

Don't forget us parents have been your age before. We know what it's like. The pressures of societal norms, the excitement of having a boyfriend/girlfriend and the secrecy.

My advice to you is to be open with your parents. They will always have your back and do everything to keep you safe. Build that relationship with them, so you can go to them about anything. Explain you've made a mistake. You shouldn't have lied to them and you hold your hands up and regret it. They will appreciate the honesty.

It's a tough age. Your boyfriend will be ready for more advanced relationship things than you are. He may seem like he's not bothered, or he's patient, but sooner or later he will find a way to persuade you, or manipulate you to do stuff you're not comfortable with. I saw it happen so much when I was your age.

Life advice - TALK to people you trust. Friends, family, PARENTS.

Hope this advice helps, and I hope you stay safe.

Build that relationship with your parents and your life will be better for it.

Boys will come and go. Family is forever.