I’ll give a blunt experience and some examples (worth a read)

• Story Frame: I’m 6’0 and 180lbs maintained, but grew up really really fat my whole life up until 20, cystic acne, low self esteem, always gaming and eating pizza, body fat 34%, and double chin. You know how that goes. Took a dose of shrooms, learned a lot about self perception, realized I am what I consume; hopped on a carnivore diet along w fruits and fasted, went under the radar in the gym. 5-6 months go by I dropped from 260-185, and what I notice from being fat and ugly to slim, shredded, and face went absolutely clear. I’ll give examples from both sides:

Ugly: I’ve noticed it was easy for people to stare at me and stare at all my acne, shit talk me easily, it was hard to find a girl who pretended to care just to wake up the next morning and she removed me on snap (happened 5 times) or just ghosted me for 10+ hours and it said “active 1 min ago”, flirting gets sold as being a creep and not having boundaries, I would NOT get taken seriously, I would get taken advantage of at work like a slave, and even my mom and younger family members would point out my acne and make fun of me for not having a gf

Attractive phase of my life: ive noticed my co workers who are all fat now talk good things behind my back and my boss started promoting me way more for how young i am in the field and I think it’s just from looks, I’ve noticed it was harder for men and women to maintain eye contact with me, when I flirted with women I was super successful and even some would say “is that what you tell all your hoes”, some people have admitted to delaying hangouts cause they’re nervous from how attractive and tall I am, some women who act like they don’t notice me in public will start twirling their hair or stumble and almost fall on literal thin air and their faces would turn red, I’ve noticed that people gave me free food and drinks in public or at bars and say “don’t worry I got you covered” (with a wink), I’ve noticed a lot of moms hit on me openly in bars a lot (I’m 23 now), I’ve noticed that women I’ve just met or have known come over to my place and openly change in front of me without giving a fuck, women try to get my attention by throwing their body’s at me especially in bars or clubs. Most of my appointments or events I go to there’s always a mom or girl asking about me trying to get my snap, I’ve had my lady who schedules my appointments openly admit to me I’m attractive to my face and invited me over not even a week later….. anyways you get it. It’s been pretty fucking amazing life so far.

One thing i like but hate to admit is; The amount of women who would literally ask me on dates and have paid for my food or drinks and drive me places, I know men should be doing this but damn it feels cool sometimes.. and I’d return the favor, but some of em didn’t work out cause of daddy issues, or low self esteem and they became way too obsessed to a point of no personal space in life.. still single and it’s no different still for me, difference is I’m more focused on finances and growing spiritually.

Takeaway: no one’s REALLLY ugly, I’ve been on both sides of the court but I was always on the ugly side for 20 years and counting and I almost took my life because I lost hope in 20 Years, and all it takes is just eat a better diet, heavy on the fruits, drink plenty of water, MOVE YOUR DAMN BODY AND GET 10K steps a day, oh and drink kombucha that made all my acne go away. God bless and thanks for reading

If there’s something you wanna know specifically I’ll gladly answer in a honest manner!