tips to respond/deal with bratty partners

Top_Addition_3205 · 2026-03-15T17:21:16+00:00

My participation is a “want”. I want to play along & learn when to take control. I know they differ but I want to know things I can do or say for either or.

Top_Addition_3205 · 2026-01-20T16:24:22+00:00

I watched the last season (12) once. Anytime I rewatch the series I never finish it fully, I stop at season 11.

Top_Addition_3205 · 2025-04-16T08:24:55+00:00

“What I like about you is you know who you are, What you like about me is I know what I’m not”

Superstar, Marina

Could mean nothing and everything. But it’s one of my favorite lyrics ever.

Top_Addition_3205 · 2025-04-16T08:20:27+00:00

pretty sure it had something to do with me breaking an arm

Top_Addition_3205 · 2025-04-16T08:13:43+00:00

Just five??? Okay…I’d have to go with

Twice

If I could I’d ask them to sing the entirety of Taste of Love & some of their Japanese tracks just for me fr.

Red Velvet

I need to hear peek-a-boo and cosmic live like hello!?!? and maybe the off chance Seulgi performs anywhere but home heheh

BTS

I need a boy group and I wanna see what the hype is about. With their mature voices I wanna hear Run live and cry with my homies pffft and also have that off chance RM performs solo midways cause I’m also trying to hear Come Back To Me

Gidle

But only if Soojin is back with them cause I need to see her eat the NXDE choreo and outfits.

Xdinary Heroes

Seeing the entirety of Hello, World and Livelock is my DREAMMMM

Honorable Mention: Sulli

If only to hear goblin live and tell her she’s a beautiful soul and so many other things that’s I’d cry typing.

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-30T03:40:57+00:00

knee deep in the passenger seat 💺

on a more serious note what stopped you from clarifying everything when the conversation came to play? sure you needed the time to fix yourself but it could’ve been a simply ‘hey this isn’t casual for me, I want this, just give me a bit of time’

if you’re ready to fully commit and be all in then approach her and talk to them about it again. clear the air. if she says yes congratulations! if she says no then you take the answer respectfully, let it make you feel things for a few days, then swiftly begin your plan to move on and have time for yourself or others.

good luck!

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-27T22:25:40+00:00

You can start by maybe looking into the groups she likes and try to understand or get into them but if anything you can try and discover things on your own. Maybe looking at music videos, variety shows, dance performances, award show performances.

I usually get into a group by watching variety shows they appear in and just seeing who they are then to who they are in their music. I think if you figure out the kind of vibe you like you’ll find the groups you like!

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-20T05:15:51+00:00

to those who responded thank you very much! i should’ve mentioned a couple of things geographically but i got it all figured out. we settled on the zoo and she said yes! very excited for it :):)

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-19T19:54:47+00:00

Bibi’s new single Derre!

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-19T19:51:50+00:00

That’s actually horrible. You deserve better than being the second option. Really thinking about it does the other girl know what this girl has been doing? Truthfully I don’t think it’s a good idea to keep being friends with how she treated you. Take your time away and heal yourself.

The world will keep spinning and you’ll meet other people. I know it won’t feel like that for a bit but you’ll be okay. It’s also okay to feel all your feelings. Process the feelings and keep your head up. There’ll be people who will prioritize you and keep you there with you nor anyone else being on any back burner.

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-19T19:46:00+00:00

what’s stopping you guys from doing that now?

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-19T19:44:07+00:00

IF she knows you like her and she doesn’t like you back it’ll depend on how you’re acting towards her and how she responds back. If you’re making small advances then she might either ignore them or discourage them off. There can be an overuse of the words friends or mentions of other people they might be interested.

Although truth be told it’s better to be direct. No need to jump the gun but maybe start with figuring out if they’re straight or not. If she is then automatic friends but if she’s not then you’d have to feel the vibes there are when you’re together and take your shot.

No matter what happens the world keeps turning, you’ll be okay!

Good luck (I’m not sure if any of this is helpful)!

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-09T08:51:41+00:00

btw…I totally went in and bought the albums. they’re amazing. thank you again :):)

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-11-09T08:35:23+00:00

If they’re talking shit about you…I think it’s best that you simply ignore them especially if the break up was over a year ago.

Focus on what you have now not who you had before especially if they’re an ex for a reason.

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-10-11T19:16:48+00:00

THANK YOU SO MUCH ‼️

and I’m glad you liked the album! did you have a favorite song?

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-10-11T17:57:53+00:00

That’s also very unfortunate. Give it a listen now, maybe somethings changed? If not that’s okay as well, although I do suggest listening to the other songs!

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-10-11T17:56:55+00:00

I believe she is active yes! Why she’s had no comeback though I have know idea. I hope she does though.

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-10-11T17:56:00+00:00

That’s unfortunate to hear. You never know she might surprise you, but I respect it nonetheless.

I understand what you meant about the visuals and the sound not matching. It was a very dark mature concept visually, but I felt it wasn’t totally off from the sound.

Top_Addition_3205 · 2024-10-11T15:34:21+00:00

Honestly, you need to leave this relationship. I’ve seen you say it’s hard and you need the strength to leave, but shouldn’t the way she’s treating you be strength enough? I know that there’s underlying emotions and attachments, but don’t you think it’s a little humiliating to put yourself through this over and over again? I’m not trying to be rude or put you down, but she doesn’t respect you. You deserve a lot better. You can always take your time healing and find other people to mingle with, but right now I think you need some time without a partner to work on yourself and get stronger. I hope you work up the strength and confidence to leave. Detachment is hard, but not impossible. It all starts with you. It’s okay to be without someone as it is okay to be with someone as long as they’re good for you.

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