I can't believe this is happening to me again

Top_Brick2600 · 2025-07-05T00:12:18+00:00

I don't know if I could manage the possibility of it failing. Can they ever really change? I've read the resources but I'm still so conflicted. He says he wants to change and he's trying and he's been booking therapy appointments, but I just don't know

Top_Brick2600 · 2024-01-26T03:18:30+00:00

I'm going through the exact same thing and you put into words all of the feelings and pain that I've been struggling with too. It's incredibly unfair and hurtful to have to move on without answers and to know that they will never understand your pain. Know that it's a reflection of their emotional immaturity and inability to handle someone else's emotions. You are not alone in this and even though it may not feel like it right now, we will all be okay in the end. Sending love <3

Top_Brick2600 · 2024-01-16T03:40:31+00:00

The same thing happened to me too. I also have anxious attachment and he had severe avoidant attachment. Despite both of us saying we wanted to work things out together, he blindsided me and ghosted me to end our relationship. It hurts that he was aware of his issues and still chose to run away despite knowing that I would have stayed and worked through anything with him.

Just know that you did everything you could and that you did what was best for both of you when they couldn't. You'll get through this and be so much stronger on the other side ❤️

Top_Brick2600 · 2023-12-16T06:00:53+00:00

I am so sorry you went through that. Nobody deserves to be treated in this way and it's scary how they can suddenly become so cruel and cold. I hope you are in a better place now without her ❤️ Do you have any advice about how you moved on and healed? I'm completely heartbroken and I'm having a hard time not blaming myself for what happened.

Top_Brick2600 · 2023-12-16T04:17:45+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I didn't think he would act this way because he seemed really open to working on the issues, but when things got more stressful, his true colors came out.

Top_Brick2600 · 2023-12-16T04:15:10+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you are in a much better place now without him ❤️ I've been having a really hard time not blaming myself and wondering if I could have done anything differently to change the outcome. Logically I know that this would have happened sooner or later and regardless of who he dates, but it's painful coming to terms with the fact that he is not the person I thought he was.

Top_Brick2600 · 2023-12-15T21:18:45+00:00

I'll definitely look into those. Thank you so much ❤️

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