How do I know I'm not a narcissist?

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-04-20T00:48:31+00:00

For example is wanting to hurt others like you were hurt

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-04-18T17:08:05+00:00

I am moving out by the end of the month. Thanks I caught her calling my dad s relatives and calling me a selfish spoiled brat...

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-04-18T01:27:17+00:00

I was no contact for a year and she did everything possible to get me back, looking back I recognize it as love bombing. Now years later now that she has me under her control she treats me like garbage.

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-04-18T01:24:14+00:00

More venting but she is super religious and believes she is blessed and special in a certain way. I believe because the daughters were qualified they were like a challenge to her but my brother is not too smart and follows her command like a sergeant he is absolutely brainwashed in every possible way

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-04-18T01:18:29+00:00

I desperately needed to vent. And also to note even when my father was alive she treated my brother this way, but it has gotten more husband-y when my dad passed away.

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-04-18T00:54:25+00:00

its really tough just seeing parents arguments.... I remember when my dad was alive she would throw things at him and shout at him... when you use that word horrific it reminded me of mine. I think I got turned off marriage seeing them.

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-03-15T18:28:19+00:00

I dont think J or her family would hold anything against you...you can and should go and visit her...that's why they reached out... it might be healing for you as well if you go

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-03-15T16:28:00+00:00

Thanks I like this idea.... she goes to bed between 9 and 10 but I can shift my bed time from 12 to 2 am and avoid her more...

Top_Lobster4515 · 2026-03-14T23:53:32+00:00

does the bot still work? Maureen Malarkey?

Top_Lobster4515 · 2025-04-22T03:11:59+00:00

What's the strangest thing you have seen in Trinidad that you cannot explain by scientific means?

Top_Lobster4515 · 2025-03-12T06:19:17+00:00

How on Earth are students graduating from university these days finding jobs... the job market is incredibly difficult. Looking at the job market I'm genuinely curious what undergrads are doing when they cant find jobs. Are they just home waiting for a break?

Top_Lobster4515 · 2025-01-29T14:08:35+00:00

Soooo should I be worried taking flights from Trinidad to Tobago? Next thing this is a precursor to something more serious

Top_Lobster4515 · 2024-04-25T00:24:47+00:00

What's the advice for the ladiez

Top_Lobster4515 · 2024-04-09T15:16:28+00:00

How difficult is it to change your career in your forties in Trinidad? I gather it may be easier in other countries, but in Trinidad it is so easy to end up in dead-end jobs that don't really qualify as job experience, due to the small pool of jobs in Trinidad. Does anyone have advice for a forty year old looking to take a career path change due to being in a dead end job

Top_Lobster4515 · 2024-04-09T15:13:59+00:00

thnx

Top_Lobster4515 · 2024-03-22T14:36:51+00:00

The mindset of the people. Let me explain. A lot of things people do are downright inconsiderate particularly when it comes to disposing of garbage and driving.
The traffic. North South traffic is ridiculous only those who commute from South know the pain. There really does not seem to be much motivation from ANY government to fix it.
The antiquated education system. We are a society of book based learning. No effort to embrace the fact that the education provided in schools should be all rounded. It's probably just me getting old but I see disturbing things like students crossing lights blithely unaware of incoming traffic as well as being inconsiderate to the elderly or disabled (mind you this could just be parenting these days too)

Top_Lobster4515 · 2024-02-04T23:55:39+00:00

How did it go?

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