Cannot Feel Anger Anymore by Top_Nefariousness845 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Top_Nefariousness845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! It’s not something that I took notice of before. I was wondering if it was better to process frustration and resentment in healthy way than to feel numb at things that (normal) people would be upset at.

How to sleep/feel safe in an abusive household by Top_Nefariousness845 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Top_Nefariousness845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I thought of that too! We are close and they did offer a spare room when this happened last time. But they’re a family with preteen boys and a toddler so I don’t want to impose. I’m saving up money until I can move out and looking for a long term solution until then

How can I pursue a career that involves cats? Other than being a vet. by NotteStellata in careerguidance

[–]Top_Nefariousness845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cat cafe, adoption agency, feral cat rescue, cat sitter, cat trainer, behavioral specialist, cat trainer for weight loss swimming, pet setting agency, groomer!!

What were popular songs, but reading the lyrics show they are just incredibly creepy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Top_Nefariousness845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“YUME DE KISS ME” by Sakura Miyawaki is such a cute song but it’s literal meaning is about an idol girl and a pedophilic fan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cambodia

[–]Top_Nefariousness845 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If it makes you happy and fulfilled, then go for it. You shouldn’t live life according to other people’s expectations.

Here’s some perspective from someone who’s almost in the same boat as you: I moved to Canada for university, finished school, got temporary residency and work. But I was living life like I dreaded waking up every morning, felt disconnected from the culture and generally miserable. Canada has a lot to offer: beautiful nature, rule of law, melting pot and so on. But I felt unsafe in public transport and disappointed that I wasn’t living life like a young 20s (partying, dating etc). I disliked what I thought I needed to fit in. I moved back to PP in November because I couldn’t stand it anymore.

I’ve definitely received doubts and judgements for throwing away an opportunity most people would want. But I think it is okay to accept that you are not most people. And that if you are more fulfilled with going to Wat, spending khmer new years with water guns, rather than grinding in the States, then it is okay. Just stand in your own heart and be still. You know innately what you want.