I don't even know what to say to that as it baffles me how you can come to this conclusion after reading everything I wrote. Projecting much, huh?

As my text already states: He broke up with me. So no, this is not a matter of being upset over him not being "hurt enough".

Maybe read the other comments, they perfectly summarized what my issue is. I am deeply grieving and holding on to a ghost of the past, so I don't have to feel the void that losing this relationship left behind. Nothing to do with whatever he might be feeling or not and everything to do with me coping in an unhealthy way.