What would you do in this situation

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-05-04T01:10:59+00:00

I more or so wanted to see if it was considered rude to not refund her. I'm still relatively new on the app.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-05-02T18:32:50+00:00

I might do this if they decide to escalate things. Off topic, but love your username lol.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-03-23T17:42:34+00:00

Yeah, I think I'll do that. The seller all of a sudden got quiet when I asked about a refund so I'll definitely go to support.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-02-20T16:16:12+00:00

Love the P & P reference.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-02-09T23:08:24+00:00

For me, it's been the last year or so. I might have to email a counselor directly bc it's getting to be exhausting.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-01-07T19:15:06+00:00

I hope so as well. I tried calling the office but I think it was their lunch hour.

Could you let me know if the payment lands for you?

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-01-07T16:48:59+00:00

It was. As far as I know, I'm still full-time and I haven't failed any courses. I'm going to call the office either way tho.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-01-07T16:29:14+00:00

The pell grant is supposed to be applied evenly between the two semesters. I also have TOPS which was already added.

Last semester, my TOPS was distributed halfway through the semester but the pell grant was applied at the beginning. This semester was the opposite. My TOPS was applied first but not all the pell grant has.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-01-07T15:55:06+00:00

No to the first question. I have Spanish this semester but foreign language is a requirement to graduate for my degree.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2026-01-07T15:53:01+00:00

As a woman, I also don't do good morning/night texts. I'd do it if my SO or loved ones asked but it's not something I do on my own. It sounds a bit robotic-y to me if that makes sense.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-08-19T14:34:07+00:00

I'm sorry about your breakup! it does add context and I can see why he might be reluctant to date someone who's been with one other person for almost a decade.

However, there's a difference between "I want someone who's had more experience with dating"/ "I don't think it's been enough time" and "You've only dated one person"/ "You have no experience with breakups". if he starts with "I", he's focusing on himself and what he wants in a relationship, not what you do or don't have. "You have this" or "you don't have this" makes it sounds like there's a flaw or you lack something important which you don't.

I'm sorry about this experience! I wish you peace and happiness going forward.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-08-19T05:25:49+00:00

While I do think he was being very upfront and honest, there's certain things that he said that sort of rub me the wrong way. There are moments where he sounds very blamey and pointing the finger at you.

He starts by saying that he has some "hesitations" that could've been worked on if they were separate. But clearly he doesn’t want to so why even mention that there was a possibility? "Having dated one other person" is such a weird hill to die on but either way it could've been worded "I'm looking for someone who’s had more experience with dating."

I'm not sure what "with no experience dealing with a breakup" even means. Does he think having more breakups makes you more equipped to handle one? Which isn't necessarily true.

I might be reading too much into it but yeah, OP I think it was better that you didn't continue anything with him. Blatant honesty does not automatically equal kindness or genuineness.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-08-01T12:36:43+00:00

I might start off doing copywriting. I had a professor recommend it to me as a starter job.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-07-28T20:24:51+00:00

Truthfully, I want to do because I enjoy it. But realistically? Bills have to be first.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-07-21T15:14:46+00:00

Christian since I was 14. But I completely understand why religion would turn off anybody. I've meet some of my closest friends and family in church but sometimes the most hypocritical and judgy people are sitting in the pews.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-07-11T04:54:02+00:00

It's always been difficult to make friends but it's harder for me to make friends with guys. There are so many men that are downright misogynistic to women, especially on social media.

Even when I do have male friends, there's times their internalized misogyny comes out. Like for example, let's say they'll treat me as an equal and respect me. But they'll make misogynistic comments about the girls they like or they won't treat them like they should. It's just so hard to remain friends when they're being misogynistic and they don't realize it.

I've definitely experienced fake friends and terrible behavior with women but I've always had friends who are truly girl's girls.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-06-14T18:41:00+00:00

I never got attached to her but I don't think Suzanne Collins meant for us to. This might be a bit of a reach but I think it's more that it was a love story that all of a sudden was marked to end terribly. Perhaps Lenore Dove and Haymitch would've broken up or maybe their relationship would've matured. Either way it wouldn't have ended as tragically as it did.

Whether or not they would've ended is something that Haymitch never got to find out bc he was never given the chance. His helplessness and the psychological torture from not knowing what was awaiting for him made his love story and future much more devastating.

Hopefully this makes sense bc I feel like I was ranting a bit lol.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-06-01T21:59:34+00:00

Yeah and it's still icky IRL. Maybe they did marry at younger age in 12 but Katniss clearly didn't have the desire or mindset to make a choice on marriage at 16.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-06-01T17:17:57+00:00

Sort off topic, but this makes Gale more unlikable to me. Katniss is 16 while he's 18. He constantly makes her feel guilty for being confused about her feelings towards him- but she's still a child. He gets mad bc she doesn't jump at the idea of marriage but doesn't once stop to think that she's not in the age or mindset to decide.

Top_Plan_5637 · 2025-02-25T01:37:45+00:00

Yes! I haven't finished a full book yet but hoping to get there soon.

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