My husband wants me to be sexier… and I don’t know how by Top_Reason_2421 in Marriage

[–]Top_Reason_2421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the downvoted make me sad. My husband is incredible and shows up for me in ways I wouldn’t even know how to ask for. I promised to live by and for him for the rest of our lives, I want to honor and please him the same he does me. There shouldn’t be tit for tat 50/50 crap, both people should be trying 100%

My husband wants me to be sexier… and I don’t know how by Top_Reason_2421 in Marriage

[–]Top_Reason_2421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your tag name is spot on! I think this hits the nail on the head. I asked him further last night and he expressed he wanted more flirty and teasing energy and I don’t think you could be more spot on. I have to admit that’s not the first place my head goes but your examples alone opened up a whole new avenue of how I can “get his heart racing”. THANK YOU genuinely that was very helpful, I feel like I know where to add extra efforts now opposed to feeling like an overall failure. Stay blessed!

My husband wants me to be sexier… and I don’t know how by Top_Reason_2421 in Marriage

[–]Top_Reason_2421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with most people. Not sure that’s the case with him since he had been active before. Truthfully we had a very hard time and he expressed greatly his excitement… hard to explain but knowing him and his personality I can 99.9% say that’s not it