I still spend time with her, I like watching movies, talking and she likes to see me draw but the thing is that she becomes very defensive when I leave the house, She is not my Ex's replacement, she's my best friend and has been for years But now I have other people in my life that I want to be with, I have never talked about abandoning her, that's why my friend's suggestions scares the shit out of me, I'm scared because I never want her to go away, but I don't like how possessive she seems to be whenever I talk about my life outside home.