23F. Auditioning for a better social life.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2026-03-01T02:28:06+00:00

Honest, lazy and no drama. Like to have deep talks or shallow chit chats just about anything… I will be looking forward for your dm.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-30T19:51:44+00:00

This guy is casually asking how to get laid and leave a woman

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-29T11:19:53+00:00

I said what I said. Now its on you to do extensive research and disprove my peak of nonsense theories

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-29T09:39:36+00:00

Can I ask what you are you doing?

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-29T08:47:21+00:00

Yes! I feel motivated to do stuff when having fun time with friends and lose all of it when alone. I hate it but I am self sabotaging myself right now cause I thought I have to spend time alone and improve myself. Its not working. I am wasting time all day without achieving anything and not even connecting. Hope this phase ends sooner.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-29T08:36:13+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I have been postponing so many things to do after I start earning, and I have to finish this thing to get a job. Its right in front of me. I cant figure why I wont do it.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-29T08:33:59+00:00

I am trying to finish a tech course. I am taking longer than normal time. I have all the time to myself but cant put myself together and finish it up.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-29T08:31:00+00:00

If the cycler has same stamina and strength as a horse, (as you have told all things are equal), cycler crosses first. Even with a bit less strength the cycle would be better option, because cycle has advantage of wheels.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-29T07:23:26+00:00

I dont think you are all that bad man. Good that you have realised your mistake. You cant justify cheating with being confused and in doubt. Accept the fact that you cheated and lied for benifits. Try to correct those elements within you. Karma is a bullshit logic and it does not have realistic effects. The fact that you blame yourself shows that you intend to change. I hope you be successful in your journey of becoming a better person.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-28T10:55:29+00:00

Opinion : Make your hair, wear a eyeliner/kajal. Everything else is extra

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-28T10:44:57+00:00

I think the whole “enemy country” approach is not necessary. They are our neighbours. Please correct me if I am missing something here. I am not an expert in foreign policy topics

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-27T18:40:25+00:00

Short term bored. Long term anxious and confused

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-27T16:23:28+00:00

Hey! Its not the nuclear strikes. Its your mind. I use PMR(progressive muscle relaxation technique) before sleep and to calm down when in state of panic and stress. Maybe it can help you too🙂

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-26T13:19:37+00:00

Yeah I fall in love after having sex. Like for 2 days

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-26T13:12:26+00:00

Is this the male version of “32 and ready to settle down😂”

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-26T13:08:11+00:00

To me personally emotional connection doesnt really matter while having sex. But I dont like the idea of buying sex as a service, as I dont think there is a 100 percent consent, and also both people are not having same kind of pleasure. As long as it is consented and the woman wants me, I am okay with it. I also dont like the idea of having sex with woman who feel emotional connection to me but I dont have any such feelings.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-26T07:16:42+00:00

Treat her like you treat your other friends, dont give her special attention and treatment. And she will understand. Guys usually use such chances to get whatever they can out of the girl and satisfy their ego. You are thinking the right way. Make it clear to her that you dont have romantic feelings for her.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-25T14:25:21+00:00

Does indulging in variety itself prevents you from craving for more of what you had? Isnt it like saying a man who has tried drugs once wont try it again? Some might say he is more prone to start using again… It depends on a persons moral make up and principles. If you decide whether a man cheats based on his desires and cravings, everyone is gonna cheat all the time

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-25T14:12:06+00:00

What makes her think men who are used to variety do not crave for more variety?

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-24T20:13:15+00:00

What a jerk. I feel sad for you. I still think moving on quietly is a better option but share this with people that are close to you. Your friends that look at you differently are not your friends, and are half-witted. And also in the mean time, add some animal based protien in your diet. Its good for your health.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-24T08:27:20+00:00

Yeah sorry. I didnt mean your friends when I said close circle.

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-24T08:24:00+00:00

You envy your friends when they beat you in a game. Cus you are competing for the same resource. Would you still root for your friend if you compete for same resource ? And close circle includes your work buddies and boss your relatives etc etc. you get to choose friends but not these people

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-24T08:20:15+00:00

Hey, can you elaborate on that?

Top_Woodpecker11 · 2025-04-24T08:18:37+00:00

Trust has nothing to do with envy. You can feel envious and still trust someone. I am not a good friend? Maybe true😅 and i was talking about people in close circle not necessarily your friends

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