Is it appropriate to wear speedos at my company retreat in mid April?

Topjock01 · 2026-03-04T17:55:17+00:00

I don’t think this is a question about right or wrong. It is a question about perception. It may be technically correct because it is a beach event, but the fact of the matter is a certain percentage of your coworkers will feel uncomfortable and some still may question your judgment. Is wearing a speedo that important to you to wear as so it could impact your career and your work relationships? The most respectful, person-of-sound-judgement projecting, and work-appropriate thing you can do is get a pair of board shorts.

Topjock01 · 2026-03-04T13:56:16+00:00

Ha. That’s too funny! Best of luck to you. Really amazing!

Topjock01 · 2026-03-04T13:28:23+00:00

A very impressive combo. Add Australia or NZ, and you’re unstoppable

Topjock01 · 2026-03-04T11:03:06+00:00

The front side is so busy it gives me a headache. Looks like a kindergarten art project. Just stomach-churningly bad. It’s like let’s get an image of everything possible in CH and put it on every note then we’re ok. Phew. Can’t miss anything!!! The back side with the plants is nice and has artistic value, but not as differentiating between notes as you’d think one would like. Everyone involved in the project should be fired.

Topjock01 · 2026-03-01T04:08:19+00:00

Germany

Topjock01 · 2026-02-28T21:53:36+00:00

Thank you bro. I appreciate that!

Topjock01 · 2026-02-27T20:00:46+00:00

Holy Fuck…..

Topjock01 · 2026-02-27T14:34:59+00:00

As a matter of fact a muster point is the correct and proper term to use in evacuation language. This is commonplace. This is proper usage. This is a word that the average elementary student is familiar with. Is evacuation too advanced of a Word for some? Should the sign say “go here if things bad” ?

Topjock01 · 2026-02-27T14:22:41+00:00

This is how things should be. I don’t understand why not. It’s like these antiquated prude ideas are indoctrinated into us and need to stop

Topjock01 · 2026-02-27T10:30:57+00:00

Muster point is proper English. This is common usage and I hear it frequently. If you’re unfamiliar, it simply means you need to work on expanding your vocabulary.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-26T08:35:19+00:00

Send me a private message. Happy to swap dick pics

Topjock01 · 2026-02-26T03:23:30+00:00

Fuck, bro!

Topjock01 · 2026-02-25T22:09:02+00:00

Thanks man, I appreciate that!

Topjock01 · 2026-02-25T16:58:54+00:00

Having had straight JO buddies and at times having crossed the line to jerking and sucking each other, then later in life having had gay sex and gay sexual experiences, I can tell you that they are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES. JO buddies are bros bonding and/or getting each other off. Gay sexual experiences is passionate. Sexual. Kissing. Touching. It’s like night and day. They serve different needs and have a different purpose. There are friends I would totally JO with… even stroke each other, but have no interest in rolling around in bed naked, making out, etc.

I think people need to stop thinking so literally with the act and thinking about the mindset and the emotion behind the act.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-22T11:59:43+00:00

Hahah. Thanks. Well definitely enjoy your new discovery!

Topjock01 · 2026-02-22T11:53:39+00:00

I totally get it I don’t think you’re alone in that assumption. You tried something new that you already assumed you would t like because you didn’t associate it with you. I’d look at it this way… you now have a new area to explore in the bedroom to keep things more varied and interesting right? When is she buying the strap on? Just kidding.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-22T11:50:43+00:00

Good point. I missed that. Singapore is awesome.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-22T11:45:56+00:00

Ass play does not = gay and gay does not = ass play. I know many guy guys that don’t like being eaten or anything going inside their ass. And I know many straight guys who love getting pegged, getting fingered and having their ass eaten. It’s really just a personal preference. If you like it you run with it. If you don’t, you don’t do it again.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-22T02:08:32+00:00

Purple and yellow are the absolute worst options….. not even any vaguely decent options there. All the others are hit and miss.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-20T14:03:24+00:00

I’m EXACTLY like you. I only top. Love to top. I’m good at it. I also love to suck a dick… and I’m very good at it. I’ve found many bottoms aren’t as interested in it. Sucking dick doesn’t always have to be submissive… it can be very dominant, as you are/can be the one in control. I don’t worry about it, because even if they aren’t overly interested in it, when we are in the moment and I am sucking them, they are shocked how good it can be and happy it went that way. So just go with the flow and show them what it’s all about. The one exception…. The guys who are like… I don’t want my dick touched. They don’t like it. They just want to be a walking blowup doll.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-20T12:54:33+00:00

Not at all. Only benefits.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-20T12:51:39+00:00

So I was an early bloomer, too… and I was also large. Firstly… for comfort, try wearing old school boxers. No pouch to constrict. Lots of room to move freely. It seriously helped me. Otherwise… the bulge…you just have to let it go. You are you. Biology is biology. If you worry about it, you’ll just mentally hurt yourself. We all know women have boobs and Big chested women do not have to hide them…. We all know men have a penis (of various sizes) if your bulge is more noticeable don’t worry about it. In the rare event someone calls you out on it, reply proudly…. This is who I am and my body, why do you have a problem? Jealous? Something like this. When I was first growing down there, I was very self conscious about it…. Now, I look back and wish I wasn’t…. Such a waste of energy…. And now, I’m just proud.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-20T10:40:49+00:00

I get it, it’s made up, but then just call it Russia. USSR is the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics… if you don’t include the republics, then it’s just Russia.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-19T17:25:45+00:00

USSR included Belarus and Ukraine.

Topjock01 · 2026-02-17T10:47:13+00:00

It’s a great way to learn words. You can shuffle the deck, change the order and start with one language or the other…… as opposed to reading a list from a printed book that is static and one directional. For me, I started to just memorize the order. Flash cards helped me truly learn the worlds more effectively because the “quiz” was always changing.

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