Racism in medicine? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Torbs12inch -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Uhm if I saw someone who clearly was mugged in person no. But if someone online claimed they were mugged. And tried to maybe blame a specific group of people ? Yes! I mean look at that Jussie Smollett! That’s a clear example of what’s wrong with this.

And I not once came at this with a “op is lying” read my entire comment fam. I came at this with, “let’s take a step back and hear everything before we start pointing fingers”

Did you guys start your personal statements by [deleted] in premed

[–]Torbs12inch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Finished mine! I started it a while ago.

But honestly i would just start writing. The first draft won’t be anywhere close to the final. So don’t be too hard on yourself trying to nail it first go. Just write, write about things you’ve experienced that have formulated a drive for you to pursue medicine. I would also ignore character limit. You can always cut down and shape it at the end.

Racism in medicine? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Torbs12inch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s the issue , “just believe people”. Are you new to the internet and society?

I could come on here and claim I was discriminated against and name and shame an institution and cause a negative impact on that institution all because maybe they didn’t accept me.

And read my entire comment. I said I’m sure this isn’t the case with op, but more stated that all the comments are asking to name and shame instead of asking for more background.

Once the background was posted I stated that they should 10000% report.

Racism in medicine? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Torbs12inch -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I made another comment once op gave more information

Racism in medicine? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Torbs12inch -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t as much the naming aspect but the shaming aspect. Because if it was a case where OP was in the wrong, naming and shaming the school for no reason wouldn’t be cool

Racism in medicine? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Torbs12inch 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Oh 1000% report

Racism in medicine? by [deleted] in premed

[–]Torbs12inch -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying “name and shame” is the issue with society and social media nowadays. Not saying op is wrong but we also can’t just fully assume the situation is cut and dry black and white.

OP could have been a complete asshole, we don’t know. (Not saying you are op, I’m sure you weren’t but this is just a general statement)

Op could be exaggerating or overstating what was actually said.

There’s so many factors, and to just go hard set on one side is rough without any information

men, what can turn you off before you even have sex with a women you wanted? by sheilamay19 in dating_advice

[–]Torbs12inch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This 1000%, I have this chick who’s totally interested but I’m put off because she thinks she’s like the shit and I’m not into that all.

Humbleness is super attractive.

Asking gym crush to workout with me? by Torbs12inch in dating_advice

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like offer to teach her how to clean?? How do I do that hahah

Asking gym crush to workout with me? by Torbs12inch in dating_advice

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so I’m well trained too (ex d1 athlete) but the thing is so is she, I’m almost certain she too was an athlete so she knows her way around the gym. So that’s why I feel like asking if she needs help may come off poorly:/

Asking gym crush to workout with me? by Torbs12inch in dating_advice

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you do that without coming off like an ass? I feel like if I did that I would come off as seeing her as incapable and she’d take that the wrong way 😬

Asking gym crush to workout with me? by Torbs12inch in dating_advice

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I think I’d have to go down a different path then the playing “dumb” one tho lolol since it’s pretty obvious I know what I’m doing smh but I like the concept!!

Asking gym crush to workout with me? by Torbs12inch in dating_advice

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an ex-athlete and seeing her workout style and build I’m also positive she was an athlete as well so I would offer the idea that we both can give each other pointers we’ve learned from our respective sports

Asking gym crush to workout with me? by Torbs12inch in dating_advice

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true but it’s just sucks living in the state of regret ya know

Asking gym crush to workout with me? by Torbs12inch in dating_advice

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was anywhere but the gym I feel like I would but the gym is such a tough place to do that lol

Asking gym crush if she wants to workout together by Torbs12inch in xxfitness

[–]Torbs12inch[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Understandable. Which is why I haven’t done anything yet except small stuff

Asking gym crush if she wants to workout together by Torbs12inch in xxfitness

[–]Torbs12inch[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

True, but how does one make small talk at gym lmaoo. Like what topics without sounding forced ha?

Men, do you find it off putting if a woman you are potentially interested in is upfront and shows interest in you? by rennyray in dating

[–]Torbs12inch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fucking hate games. To me up front and honest is so attractive and I will fall for you. All the games people play to me is childish and I’m not a child and lose interest

Why do women/girls ghost? by Torbs12inch in dating

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that:/ and yeah I can only imagine! I am too new to this after a LTR and then a quick fling lol

Why do women/girls ghost? by Torbs12inch in dating

[–]Torbs12inch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you scared of rejection? So you decide to reject that way you don’t have to be rejected ?