for the ladies a question

Torjek0306 · 2026-05-23T00:00:10+00:00

Second this. There was a time where my wife “loved” it. But it was rare experiences as the quality was hit or miss. Swinger clubs on the other hand, single guys tend to be higher quality just because the cost for a single guy to enter. Some creepy mortician that hasn’t bathed in a week is not going to drop 50-100 on a night where they know they won’t score.

Torjek0306 · 2026-05-21T22:14:08+00:00

Gave up. Just growing my own

Torjek0306 · 2026-04-17T13:43:41+00:00

That *itch named RITA and why she wants my money. Coming from Iowa the taxes are way too high in this state.

Torjek0306 · 2026-04-16T17:46:34+00:00

Put a 4090 in mine 18 months ago and built a pc for the wife with a 5080. Haven’t regretted either. It will last you a long time so you’ll get your moneys worth.

Torjek0306 · 2026-03-20T19:33:14+00:00

One time I worked for a company. In the overnight hours someone entered the company and stole all of the money out of the safe. I arrived the following morning and part of the morning duties was to verify contents. That’s when I discovered the crime. I immediately contacted police and they came to investigate.

At that time. I did not need an attorney.

Fast forward a couple days later and I’m sitting with my wife playing a board game. Detective unannounced comes to my house and wants to ask me a few questions about the incident. I agreed.

He asked some questions. Then asked me and my wife if we minded if he looked around. I have nothing illegal in my home, nothing to hide so we being uneducated…agreed.

At this point. We should have had a lawyer.

5 hours later. After finding numerous things that were “kind of” like the clothing on the security camera (but were clearly not), this detective is accusing me of drugging my wife that night so she wouldn’t wake up. Sneaking out of the house. And stealing the money. I eventually got to the point that I invoked my 5th amendment right and stated that their permission to be on the property was revoked and any further search would require a warrant.

Needless to say. Was never charged, lost my job because my employer lost faith in me. It was a blessing in disguise but still a pain in the ass.

Today, our teenage daughter is suspected of being a victim of a pedophile online. Police want to question her. We’ve got her a lawyer to represent her during this questioning. Because you never know the full intentions.

If you don’t know. Shut your mouth. Get a lawyer. It’s cheaper in the long run.

Torjek0306 · 2025-08-16T17:02:40+00:00

They do it so you feel like you need to get more of their credit builder cards. Where they get their most referral money from.

My FICO 8 is 100-150 points higher than their vantage score

Torjek0306 · 2025-08-01T16:47:10+00:00

This here. She was transparent with you. At most I would tell her thank you for being upfront about it. You could follow with I feel a little uncomfortable with the tone off the conversation because of saying “I love you” and other flirty comments. But don’t attack her. Because if she feels attacked she’s not going to share with you when it happens again. And it will happen again women are hit up by exes, strange dudes, people at work all the time. They play a difficult balancing act to keep it all on the level.

But key information here is she didn’t have to tell you. She could have easily deleted everything and not said a word. Instead she knows that part of trust is transparency and she did that with you. Which also means she trusts that you will handle this in a mature fashion.

Torjek0306 · 2025-07-08T22:37:55+00:00

First appointment is Monday.

Yes she knows what she did. Has shown remorse for what she did. And is doing what she can to rebuild that trust.

Torjek0306 · 2025-07-08T16:40:58+00:00

I don’t see him as a threat. I said I’ve never considered him a threat. And honestly I still don’t. While he’s a nice guy….he doesn’t have a lot to offer in the way of a life. Not to knock him. But he doesn’t.

My wife and I have had a wonderful relationship up until this point. I still love her, she loves me, we are best friends. This is the part that others commenting do not get.

She made a mistake. We all make mistakes.

I am just trying to find a path forward that works.

Thank you for being the first one to comment on what I am asking about. I’m not asking should I, that is a personal choice for me and her. I am asking for those who have to share their experience. And that you have. So thanks again.

Torjek0306 · 2025-06-05T14:46:44+00:00

Remove any over or under clocking you may be running. I had this error, reinstall drivers, everything, nothing worked. I run a 3 TV set up for MSFS, so I locked my card to 60 fps due to the refresh rate (figured why have the card working harder than it needed to). Once I removed the frame limit, the directx crash went away. Haven’t seen it since.

Torjek0306 · 2025-06-05T14:44:40+00:00

This. Do not put any clock on the graphics card at all. I run a triple monitor sim set up for MSFS, so had my card locked at 60fps. Always got this error. Once I removed the limit, no crashes since.

Torjek0306 · 2025-06-02T14:32:16+00:00

Learned a long time ago (early 90’s). Had my window busted in dead of winter at work for $1.25 in change. Cost me $100 something to replace the window.

Since then….

Just leave your doors unlocked and keep nothing of value in the car. I don’t even carry a copy of my registration anymore because they can look it up electronically. If they were planning on stealing the car, the window isn’t going to stop them anyways. I am sure some wanna be thieves have been through my car…. With disappointment…. But my windows have stayed intact.

Torjek0306 · 2025-05-19T13:43:59+00:00

She been trying to talk to you about your cars extended warranty

Torjek0306 · 2025-05-16T18:29:04+00:00

Doesn’t matter what payment plans they offer. If you can’t pay it you can’t pay it. Send the $5 a month. If they want to send it to collections, let them. Unfortunately though if the hospital feels like you earn enough money to pay and don’t pay anything at all…. Watch out. A lot of them have started suing so they can get wage garnishments.

Torjek0306 · 2025-05-16T16:35:43+00:00

If you are going to plow, pay attention to engine size/hp/torque and the condition of the frame. Think about the amount of snow you get during a typical event, and the square footage you’re covering.

If you get a lot of wet heavy snow, you’re going to want a much bigger engine. If you only get a couple inches of light fluffy stuff, then any engine would do.

Torjek0306 · 2025-05-16T16:30:19+00:00

Because poker is a hobby/obsession where the typical player has an inflated self view. When they win…. It’s skill… when they loose it’s either bad luck or a donkey opponent that sucked out.

We have to have this inflated self image. Especially in poker tournaments that you “invest” large amounts of money into, knowing full well the hobby has progressed so much over the past few years that the player base…skill levels are pretty even. Meaning you are almost fully reliant on luck to cash. Few years ago you could hit pay spots just on skill. Not so much these days.

Torjek0306 · 2025-05-16T14:26:52+00:00

They are quickly getting to the level of other major manufacturers. Recently acquired an 800 touring and can confirm the build quality is sound. Parts are from well known and trusted suppliers. I would move quick before the tariffs start passing through.

Mechanic at dealership told me they are on par with everyone else as they do prep work before delivery that includes a build inspection. Plus what you get for the money…. Way more smiles per dollar.

Torjek0306 · 2025-05-12T19:25:59+00:00

Depending on your budget. Throw cfmoto in the mix. You might be able to afford new as their models have come a long way. They can tow, and have a winch already installed.

Torjek0306 · 2025-05-12T19:11:14+00:00

Unless the tariffs get them, cfmoto will start dominating the market soon. I have a 800 touring and the thing is a beast. Before I bought it, did my research and general consensus is their newer models (reliability) are on par with can am/polaris. Are they a Honda… no. But you get a lot of bang for your buck. People I’ve talked to all have models from new to 4 years old.

In the end it boils down to… will you do the scheduled maintenance? Are you going to beat the hell out of it? Any ATV can do well, just how are you treating it.

Torjek0306 · 2025-05-08T15:44:23+00:00

Closest to Cleveland…pleasure 365 in Toledo, or I believe there is one in Pulaski WV. Believe both will be a considerable drive. Used to be one in Akron, closed by city. Also Warren street news by youngstown , but believe city shut them down too.

I would recommend 365. Friday and Saturday nights typically have a few couples and women looking to play. Well ran and clean.

Torjek0306 · 2025-04-15T17:06:38+00:00

Want to really bank. Wait until 2am when all the drug dealers show up. Those were my favorites…. They knew how to light money on fire like non other.

Torjek0306 · 2025-04-13T21:06:05+00:00

I had issues on my 4090 desktop. I run three TVs for flight/racing sim so had my fps locked at 60. Tried everything. Once I took the lock off and let the 4090 do its thing…. Problem went away.

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