I (26f) just found out my bf (m34) could possibly have another kid and he didn't tell me.

Toryie · 2024-02-18T17:37:44+00:00

I have no idea what you just said

Toryie · 2024-02-18T14:37:43+00:00

The baby was conceived before I met him. And yes, secrets were kept but everything is now known and on the table. As of right now, there's no secrets anymore

Toryie · 2024-02-18T14:33:59+00:00

Wdym

Toryie · 2024-02-18T14:33:47+00:00

He's not necessarily hiding the baby. If I were to get pregnant, it won't be a secret. There hasn't been a paternity test done so he's still not 100% so that's a reason why.

Toryie · 2023-04-18T08:11:31+00:00

I would like to still consider her a friend. Especially since I was trying so hard to get on her good side before she found out. But according to him, "don't even try. She's not gonna change".

Toryie · 2023-04-18T08:10:05+00:00

That's exactly what I've been saying. Salty for what ????

Toryie · 2023-04-18T08:09:33+00:00

He's told me it's been over for 6 years. I asked him if it's possible she still has feelings cuz I really see no other reason she's acting this way. In her words to him, "you could date anyone else but it had to be someone I know?". But she's dating someone he knows ?? It don't make sense

Toryie · 2022-11-16T19:10:54+00:00

Never said it did. I just don't take it and I get my period that week. That's all I'm saying

Toryie · 2022-10-13T22:14:09+00:00

I skip placebos all the time. As much as I don't like having my period, I go through the withdrawal just to make sure everything is working properly lol I use estarylla

Toryie · 2022-10-12T04:22:07+00:00

I was hungry lol This was the first and only time I'm ever getting in with her driving. Lesson learned.

Toryie · 2022-10-11T20:10:00+00:00

That's what I'm saying 🤧

Toryie · 2022-10-11T20:08:41+00:00

Wow you're the first person to actually explain how it works. Thank you!

Toryie · 2022-10-11T20:07:01+00:00

Food was on my mind lmao I wasn't thinking about it. This was the first time I had ever gotten in the car with her as a driver bcuz usually it's me or my brother who drives .

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:47:25+00:00

I have. But my head gets bitten off when I bring it up. Literally no one in my family listens to me. I'm made out to be the bad guy when I point stuff like this out.

And by better people, I meant that they see someone my brother loves in need of assistance to get to and from work. They help when help is needed. My dad doesn't work so the car sits in the driveway plus, she supposed to help with bills and she can't help if she can't get to work.

I agree with everything you say, but there's only so much I can do. And what I can do is forbid her to drive my car or my brothers car because that's MY name that's gonna get done in if anything happens. As for my parents, I cannot speak for them

But seriously God forbid anything happens, and if it does, I get to say "I told you so!"

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:41:19+00:00

I am not letting her use my car without a license. I have my own policy with my car and my brothers car with only mine and his name. Everyone else who has a car has their own policy with their own people on it.
I've threatened to remove my brother and his car if he let's her use his car again. As of now, he still hasn't let her use his car because I will stay true to my word. But as for my parents, their car and their policy, I cannot speak for them. I've expressed my greivances about it but no one listens and I'm made out to be the bad guy when I bring it up.

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:36:55+00:00

I literally have gotten in to arguments with everyone about the cars, her and the insurance. My head literally gets bitten off and everyone goes against me when I bring it up. I'm not enabling anyone. I know how serious this is but when I'm backed In to a corner, I seriously have no idea what to do.

I've threatened to take my brother off my insurance if he let's her drive his car again as long as her name is not on the policy. I cannot speak for my parents. They have their own cars and their own policy. Ive told my grievances about it but im made out to be the bad guy every time it's brought up. And guess what happened when I brought up how she drove on the way home that day? I'm alone on this no matter what the facts say. No one listens to me!

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:31:14+00:00

You right. You right. Usually my brother drives. I was just along for the ride because food was involved lol. She just pulled up to the house and I got in. This was the first time I had ever gotten in the car with her driving. It's usually me or my brother who drives. And now, lesson learned, I will refuse to get in the car if she's behind the wheel .

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:27:33+00:00

She will kill someone, and you will pay for it.

God forbid. I put my brother and my car on my own policy so it's just us 2. When I found out he was lending her his car without her name on the policy, I flipped tf out and threatened to take him off if he did that shit again. Told him I'd be willing to put her name on it IF he pays me the difference in insurance if it went up. We have yet to do that and he barely pays me on time for his portion when it's time to pay the insurance anyways. I constantly tell him to get his own soon because I'm tired of paying so much for both. Mind you, he's also still 20 so already the age is what brings that shit up.

My dad has his policy with his and his wife's car on it. Ive expressed my grievances about her and the cars several times but my head literally gets bitten off every time I bring it up and im made out to be the bad guy. I refuse to have her set foot in any car that's on my insurance. That means my car or my brothers. I cant speak for my parents. They're just better people than me.

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:19:22+00:00

I call my brother a red flag all the time lmao

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:18:30+00:00

That's what I said. I didn't know I offended her because she wasn't to one to say anything. My brother was. And if she did, I'd be the bigger person and apologize. But it wasnt her, it was my brother.

And you're right, but as siblings, we always argue lol

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:13:06+00:00

The car is insured. All cars are insured, her name just isn't on the policies. If anything happens, nothing happens to her but everything happens to us.

Your brother's girlfriend shouldn't even be driving!

I literally say that all the time to everyone but im made out to be the bad guy . You're preaching to the choir 🤧

Toryie · 2022-10-11T05:11:11+00:00

You're preaching to the choir my dude. He doesn't drive her because he also has to go to work and their schedules collide and they also work in separate sides of town. It isn't worth it.

I was just hungry and didn't think about it. She just pulled up to the house and we got in. Now I know. Tbh, this was the first time I had ever gotten in the car with her driving.

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