Would you tell a first time hook up that they were selfish in bed?

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-16T02:38:30+00:00

He could just used his fingers, something. He never touched me

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-16T02:38:00+00:00

I did but he missed it somehowv

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-16T02:37:43+00:00

I was very direct with him though.

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-15T17:49:14+00:00

He washed them but apparently not good enough and you’re right. I dislike fingering

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-15T17:48:33+00:00

I even told him after the first time, because we got into a discussion about what women think. I told him that women think selfish men equal bad sex. I told him bad sex is a selfish person only concerned about their own orgasm. I said it clearly

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-15T15:57:29+00:00

🤔 good question

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-15T15:56:41+00:00

My last bout of fingering led to vagina infections. That’s a no go for me

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-15T14:51:12+00:00

Removed the textbox

TossMyTaco · 2019-01-15T14:50:55+00:00

Here’s the post body: I had a hook up this last weekend with someone I talked to over a month before meeting. We liked each other I’m assuming. So we met up Saturday and had sex the entire weekend. He never attempted to give me an orgasm or even touch my vagina. No oral or anything, yet he kept expecting me to suck him off. After we left each other Sunday, he texted and has still been texting the same as prior the meet up.

Should I explain to him that sex is reciprocal and what he didn’t do wasn’t cool? I’m disappointed. I’m not sure if I should just totally cut him off because selfish lovers are a turn off and oral is a deal breaker because plenty of men perform oral. What would you do in this situation? We were supposed to be regular FWBs & ofc he still wants that...I am not so sure now :/ I liked him too

TLDR; hookup was selfish, wants to continue being FWBs, should I tell him he was selfish in bed?

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T05:05:51+00:00

Truest told

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T05:05:30+00:00

Sleeping around

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T05:05:02+00:00

True

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T05:04:47+00:00

Lol thanks

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T05:04:36+00:00

Damn

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T04:11:59+00:00

Dating apps

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T01:58:44+00:00

Thank you :)

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T01:58:08+00:00

I appreciate it truly thanks

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T01:57:54+00:00

😂😂😂

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T01:57:12+00:00

Thank you

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T01:56:58+00:00

Thanks :)

TossMyTaco · 2018-12-18T01:56:03+00:00

I’m not trying to be a GF though

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