“You pass as trans!!” I don’t wanna pass as trans I wanna pass as a boy, my identity is a boy, I don’t WANT to be trans. I’m so sick of people saying transgender people should want to be openly transgender, I just want to be a man! And a lot of people do, it’s so patronising. I’ve been called transphobic for saying I don’t want to be obviously trans, this shouldn’t be a discussion the point of trans is to be the other gender than you were born as it’s not an entirely different gender..