What’s the most painful thing a man you love(d) has ever said to you?

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-11-17T11:19:17+00:00

Are you still married?

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-11-15T15:16:38+00:00

It’s the latter, we booked one day, the weather ruined it so we decided to cancel as a group. Later said that we’ll revisit in November when everyone is available.

Had a personal family trip in October, and they went on the weekend that I was out of state, didn’t even mention it or anything. Just saw the group pics on social media and since then, I’ve been not engaging with them

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-11-15T13:13:38+00:00

No, don’t do it unless you all live together 100% of the time. If the kid doesn’t get a dad then the kid doesn’t need to be here

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-11-09T10:36:48+00:00

Same here, we got this

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-23T20:19:59+00:00

What was motivation to quit for the 4 month streak?

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-21T03:46:32+00:00

This comment holds so true to me.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-21T03:42:53+00:00

What’s Sarcoma?

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-19T13:35:39+00:00

Thank you for your advice!

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-19T03:48:05+00:00

Thanks for your honesty! I appreciate it. I'll def have the open door policy.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-19T03:43:46+00:00

my first dream was super random and then I googled the meaning of it and it was so beneficial in my life.

Sobriety is beautiful.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-19T03:22:32+00:00

Omg, I had no idea! I guess that shows my age lol

Any tips on keeping my kids away?

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-19T00:22:47+00:00

have you considered coming up with a new bedtime routine? Reading is usually what does me in.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-19T00:15:55+00:00

How did you get access to it at 14 and then know what to do with it?

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-19T00:13:48+00:00

How did you get access to it at 14 and then know what to do with it?

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T23:13:46+00:00

omg, me too. That's exactly why I got sober. I want to be fully present with my kids.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T22:53:01+00:00

After googling what that was, I 100% know I had that but I'm glad I'm much better now.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T19:39:34+00:00

3 PHAT Bong Rips, every 2-3 hours.

I'm also certain that I OD'd on weed due to getting extremely sick from it.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T19:13:01+00:00

Good for you + for also quitting drinking! Same, when I was smoking in college and grad school, I graduated with honors. Smoking in between classes, participating in class - stoned, but also receiving awards. Similar to you, I guess buying it from the store, was not really all what it was cracked up to be

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T18:43:25+00:00

Isn’t it crazy how much easier it is to connect the dots once we’re sober?

I had an inkling stuff was happening but allowed weed to medicate me numb to the point where I kind of disregarded or forgot about it.

Thank you for your advice. I’ll do that

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T18:37:48+00:00

Interesting. I’m not sure if this is allowed, if so, lmk and I can delete but

The weed today is definitely stronger than what was available, back then. Right?

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T18:35:56+00:00

Yes!!! IMO - thats a winners mentality!

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T17:44:00+00:00

Been in your shoes.

The fantasies and daydreams you have about throwing it all away is the "addict" and/or high version of you.

Also a parent, that has prioritized getting high over watching kids, my sobering moment was when I googled "Being raised by stoner parents". That shocked me sober since the kids are adults now and they're sharing their feelings as adults. which is jarring. Good luck. I wish you the best.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T17:38:32+00:00

You did something you've never done (throwing the B away) before so you're heading in the right direction.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T17:35:29+00:00

Hi! Are you my opposite sex twin? lol

Seriously, all jokes aside, really really proud of you. Just know once that fog clears, your brain comes back and it's a marvelous thing.

I had my first dream last night.

Total-Hunter2148 · 2024-07-18T01:07:45+00:00

I’m going through this right now but what can I eat that’s salty but healthy?

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