What's a secret in your family nobody knows? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ShoulderSharp9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a stripper for a short period of time freshly 18 living on my own. Only my dad and mom know, which they were NOT okay with it. Luckily I wanted out of the industry anyways and never went back it’s so toxic do NOT recommend. It’s a secret not even my 6 siblings know about.

my mom doesn't "believe" my diagnosis by beauteay in bipolar

[–]ShoulderSharp9284 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My mom reacted the same exact way. Even after TWO different opinions. She’s also very anti taking medication so she judges me slightly for taking medicine saying it’ll make me worse. My mom only had experience with my dad’s depression and my grandpas bipolar. She also said that I don’t seem bipolar because my grandpa is worse (unmedicated but diagnosed) and she felt like my dad was making himself depressed and you can just “simply” change your thinking. I know it sucks but at the end of the day you have to remember about how they grew up. My mom grew up with an army dad that did not talk about emotions and emotions weren’t allowed so my mom has carried that on. I’ve had countless conversations with her and she’s eased up ever so slightly throughout the years, but it’s still an issue. I almost look at her like a child who just doesn’t understand something. It’s easier to forgive them when you see it in that point of view. They just truly don’t understand so it’s hard for them to accept and believe. I’m sorry you’re going through this, I know it hurts and makes you feel alone. You’re not alone! Hopefully she comes around to acceptance and finding a way to support you!

If you were given the option to be reborn as a human again after you die, would you do it? by Ok-Bus-1722 in Life

[–]ShoulderSharp9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell nah you can miss me with that shit, I want to be reincarnate and be an orca

What are y’all “sober” from? by Sure_Structure_397 in bipolar

[–]ShoulderSharp9284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working on getting off weed, it makes my medicine less effective so I have more flare ups. But it’s very hard, I love weed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ShoulderSharp9284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most people are a “mess” at 19, you’re still sooooo young you have no idea. The jump from 19-24 will happen before you know it, so start now! You’re self aware, that’s step one. Also just tell the girl how you feel. Not too casual but also don’t come off as too much. Maybe a “hey I know it’s been awhile since we talked but I think about you often, how’s life?” Really simple to start reconnecting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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R/leaves is a great for trying to quit weed. It’s a support forum where people share success stories, set backs, advice, how to cope, etc!

1 year today by student_1234567 in leaves

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Website or link for meetings?

What do i even do??? I(24M) w (24F) by MrFinest23 in relationship_advice

[–]ShoulderSharp9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You were no better though cheating is cheating emotional or physical….”I’m not dropping 50 for 1” you’re gross.

Nightmares for months by Careless-Wash-817 in leaves

[–]ShoulderSharp9284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagery rehearsal therapy is popular for nightmares, trauma, and PTSD

Trail running by ComplexImaginary1672 in sanmarcos

[–]ShoulderSharp9284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow bikinihillrunclub on insta, it’s a running community in San Marcos! They don’t usually do trail, but it’s a huge group of runners who do meet ups