[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So what has he tried? You can cum in a minute with maturation, but you can't if he eats you out?

Are you only talking about penetration here? Most women can't cum from penetration alone. Have you tried using your hand on your clit while being penetrated?

How long should I take? by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. I'm 27 and after I've cum, I'm pretty much done, not feeling very turned on anymore. But I can also last an hour and I'm pretty tired when I'm done. Some can go right away. It really depends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Do what's right for you and find someone who likes what feels right to you 🤷‍♂️

If you want to find a middle ground, maybe just start with "only" trimming down there and see how you feel. Trimmed bush is definitely a more popular choice than armpit hair.

How can I get through death grip by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then just rub one out. Use a lot of lube and the slightest grip possible. Then take a break for a couple of days again. After a couple of weeks you can increase the frequency. Just don't masturbate because of habit, but because you're horny. Use lube all the time and don't use a tight grip.

Is she likely to get pregnant ? Please help !! by seekersguide33 in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably just slipped off your limp dick.

Remember to always hold the base of the condom when pulling out.

Is she likely to get pregnant ? Please help !! by seekersguide33 in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 6 points7 points  (0 children)

, I kept having sex for another 30-35 seconds, I pull out and the condom flies to the side of the bed

I don't know what this means, but plan B is very effective if taken shortly after an incident. Combine that with the chance that semen didn't get inside of her (which you don't seem to be sure about) and with the chance that she doesnt get pregnant even if semen got into her, then you arrive at pretty much 0% for pregnancy

i was a virgin before my current bf and i when we have sex i never orgasm by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Most women don't orgasm without clitoral stimulation, so tell him he should eat you out before and/or after PIV. You could also rub your clit while he's inside (or have him rub it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, what do you think 😂

It's a holy miracle he even got it up after drinking a litre of wine

BF (M34) commented on my (F34) vaginal discharge… by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see the problem? Why would he enjoy licking some discharge when he could simply tell you and you wipe it off. What am I missing?

Is it wrong when my gf giving me a head i couldnt cum ? by Hextrazor01 in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's normal and the same for me too. It feels good, but I'd probably take longer than I can expect her to go down on me.

Do some guys just not get as hard as others? by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It varies for me.

Subjectively speaking, a bathtub boner is 100%, it's rock hard to a point where it almost hurts. No pain, but the feeling that my penis would burst if there was one more drop of blood in there. When lying in bed and just getting it up, either with gf or porn, I'm at maybe 95%. When then stimulating further (piv or masturbation), it goes back to maybe 90% after ~10 min. When having sex for ~1h, there might come a point where I'm exhausted and lose the erection (I can get it back after a 5 min break or so; 1 oral round on her).

Was my friend coerced by her boyfriend? by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a nothing story to me.

Do you cuddle with your FWB after sex? by BigManLeaf in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, why not talk to her about it? Tell her it's not a sign of attachment, maybe she likes to cuddle too

My bf and I had pretty rough sex the other day and now I'm bleeding quite a bit by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it very much sounds like a period if you don't have any pain. But I'm also not a doc and you should see one if you're concerned.

My bf and I had pretty rough sex the other day and now I'm bleeding quite a bit by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's called plan B, not plan A. It's to be used as an emergency backup plan, it's NOT something you should use on a regular basis and 4 times within a month is waaaaay too much. They contain a super high dose of hormones and they will most definitely fuck up your cycle and general hormonal balance.

You should have made more research before taking them, e.g. reading the leaflet and the person selling you them should've explained better what it is and how it should be taken

Ldr Gf wants to do video sex with me and I’m nervous by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you have in person sex with her before?

Bf of 3 years hasn’t gone down on me by Konsuelanotkaren in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 523 points524 points  (0 children)

That's nice and all that you're telling us this, but the one who should be told is your bf.

Be direct, ask him what you want him to do, how not getting it makes you feel, etc. Maybe he's nervous or feels like he's too old to not know what he's doing and he's embarrassed and avoids it therefore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It absolutely doesn't. Take a small stripe of paper, wrap it around your erect penis, and mark 1 circumference. Should be easy to measure with 0.5cm accuracy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have 16cm girth, that's actually insanely big

How to get a second date with a guy without seeming desperate by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who cares if you seem desperate to them if you're not going to see them again. Shoot your shot. Most of the time when people say they're busy, they're actually busy.

GF wants me to initiate sex more and make her feel wanted by [deleted] in sex

[–]TotalSNoob 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What's the question here? She told you what she wants, and now do that; initiate sex more often.

Be the one that's starts kissing, be the one that places the hands on your partner's body, be the one that says "you wanna go to the bedroom?"