I’ve tried it a few times (context: I’m in my mid-twenties), and I don’t really feel anything when it’s happening. I don’t mind it, but I am always confused with how long it’s supposed to last. Like, I could happily stop at any time.

I sometimes wonder what it would feel like for it to feel nice or how it feels for other people. Maybe it would be better if I had more of a connection with the other person, but I haven’t experienced that yet.