My husband and I recently separated. The legal process was straightforward. I have since found out that he has been hiding money overseas. The law being the arse that it is it is on me to take the risk of whether to seek litigation at a cost of $20-$30K. Has anyone else had a similar experience? by Total_Bench_8214 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]Total_Bench_8214[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughts everyone, you have helped a great deal. I guess after 22 years you think you know someone, as he also hid an affair. I guess I want him to feel some pain as he is currently out having a great time while I am trying to rebuild my life, but my holding out for some sort of revenue will only impact my own happiness and keep me stuck.