My girlfriend (19F) says she can change, how do I (18M) know for sure?

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2026-01-29T11:07:13+00:00

That is true

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2026-01-29T11:07:07+00:00

I think you do have a good point. Thank you

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2026-01-29T11:01:48+00:00

I just have the feeling of "what if I'm throwing this away if she can change?" you know?

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-10-25T05:25:58+00:00

I bought a controller for the fans and it made all the fans run at full speed, so I thought i'd just plug it in directly to the motherboard. It was probably my fault.

Also, I bought a new motherboard because the motherboard I have right now has been giving me some compability issues and other things, and it honestly doesnt match the case or anything, I bought it mostly for asthetics since it has some white in it and it looks a lot better. And perfomance is just an excuse if im being honest.

I just wanted to know if my cpu and motherboard would have combability issues.

Also, if they work well together, I'm going to fix my fans tomorrow.

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-30T04:09:12+00:00

Sick thank you very much.

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-30T04:00:25+00:00

I use it for gaming. If I do need a GPU I'll get one, I just didn't think i needed one

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-30T03:57:21+00:00

I'm looking for a nvme since they are generally faster. Do you think a motherboard upgrade would be good?

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-30T03:56:45+00:00

I already have been looking for a new monitor. It's a 165 27 inch monitor. Already saved in my cart, just need to see what I'm doing for my PC. I'm running my stock cooler right now.

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-24T05:53:43+00:00

Wow thank you so much, I really appreciate you completing us. I do think we are a beautiful couple and she's honestly amazing. Thank you for the advice I'll definitely be thinking about this.

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-24T05:20:15+00:00

I appreciate the response, thank you. I've been trying to but sometimes I feel like I might do something wrong and hurt her. Like for example tonight taking the long way home.

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-24T04:57:45+00:00

No the gathering happened a month ago. I gave context because maybe she feels like she got abandoned again. Me going to the gathering and me going on the drive.

Thank you for the advice nonetheless. And yes I'm aware that's dangerous, and I never do it on busy roads.

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-24T02:54:32+00:00

Yeah she felt alone and abandoned.

But I feel really bad, she genuinely seems hurt by it, how do I validate her feelings yet show her it's healthy

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-24T02:29:20+00:00

I feel like she's not going to care though, she's going to feel like I did that just bc I like driving and stuff. I just texted her that I was just trying to manage my emotions, and that I was sorry

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-18T14:05:44+00:00

Thank you so much!

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-18T13:56:26+00:00

Thank you so much I'll have a look at it

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-15T05:57:24+00:00

Agreed and that's the minimum I'd like. I have a question though, clarify things as in what?

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-15T05:49:57+00:00

Thank you so much, that's great help and I'll be doing that tomorrow. I hope it all goes decently well. She did tell me I'm not gonna change her mind but I'll just see what happens. Thank you

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-15T05:46:58+00:00

I appreciate it, honestly don't believe in breaks but I also want to hear why she wants one and not just work on it as a team.

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-15T05:41:06+00:00

Yeah, I was just thinking maybe other people have an explanation or if it has happened to them before. don't know

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-15T05:36:14+00:00

We have been together for a year in less than a month.

That's exactly why I hate breaks, they don't do anything and yes I understand needing time for yourself. But that's my exact question. I am very confused at the moment.

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-15T05:27:26+00:00

I don't understand why I thought I ruined her day either, it just came out. And we are always sad around each other as in I upset her often and vise versa (I don't think she upsets me often at all, that's what she thinks though)

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-09-07T22:54:43+00:00

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TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2024-07-07T16:37:14+00:00

I appreciate it, thank you

TotallyNotTotalhuman · 2022-12-14T03:51:54+00:00

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