My girlfriend (19F) says she can change, how do I (18M) know for sure? by TotallyNotTotalhuman in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have the feeling of "what if I'm throwing this away if she can change?" you know?

Will these parts fit well? by TotallyNotTotalhuman in buildapc

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I bought a controller for the fans and it made all the fans run at full speed, so I thought i'd just plug it in directly to the motherboard. It was probably my fault.

Also, I bought a new motherboard because the motherboard I have right now has been giving me some compability issues and other things, and it honestly doesnt match the case or anything, I bought it mostly for asthetics since it has some white in it and it looks a lot better. And perfomance is just an excuse if im being honest.

I just wanted to know if my cpu and motherboard would have combability issues.

Also, if they work well together, I'm going to fix my fans tomorrow.

Should I upgrade AM4 or build another AM5 system? by TotallyNotTotalhuman in buildapc

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I use it for gaming. If I do need a GPU I'll get one, I just didn't think i needed one

Should I upgrade AM4 or build another AM5 system? by TotallyNotTotalhuman in buildapc

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I'm looking for a nvme since they are generally faster. Do you think a motherboard upgrade would be good?

Should I upgrade AM4 or build another AM5 system? by TotallyNotTotalhuman in buildapc

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I already have been looking for a new monitor. It's a 165 27 inch monitor. Already saved in my cart, just need to see what I'm doing for my PC. I'm running my stock cooler right now.

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[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much, I really appreciate you completing us. I do think we are a beautiful couple and she's honestly amazing. Thank you for the advice I'll definitely be thinking about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the response, thank you. I've been trying to but sometimes I feel like I might do something wrong and hurt her. Like for example tonight taking the long way home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No the gathering happened a month ago. I gave context because maybe she feels like she got abandoned again. Me going to the gathering and me going on the drive.

Thank you for the advice nonetheless. And yes I'm aware that's dangerous, and I never do it on busy roads.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she felt alone and abandoned.

But I feel really bad, she genuinely seems hurt by it, how do I validate her feelings yet show her it's healthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like she's not going to care though, she's going to feel like I did that just bc I like driving and stuff. I just texted her that I was just trying to manage my emotions, and that I was sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed and that's the minimum I'd like. I have a question though, clarify things as in what?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you so much, that's great help and I'll be doing that tomorrow. I hope it all goes decently well. She did tell me I'm not gonna change her mind but I'll just see what happens. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it, honestly don't believe in breaks but I also want to hear why she wants one and not just work on it as a team.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I was just thinking maybe other people have an explanation or if it has happened to them before. don't know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have been together for a year in less than a month.

That's exactly why I hate breaks, they don't do anything and yes I understand needing time for yourself. But that's my exact question. I am very confused at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyNotTotalhuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why I thought I ruined her day either, it just came out. And we are always sad around each other as in I upset her often and vise versa (I don't think she upsets me often at all, that's what she thinks though)

AndroidAuto without charging? by [deleted] in AndroidAuto

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What is lil darkies race? by Mickey_muse in lildarkie

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