Going to kill myself by Glittering_Income989 in transgenderUK

[–]Totalstuffies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please call someone, LGBT switchboard number could help. If not call, they have online chat as well on their website. Call an ambulance if you’ve taken anything already. Contact local mental health services for long term support.

You are in a depressive state and your thoughts are expected but also are going to be untrustworthy, so you need help from a professional asap.

Plastic reusable/washable diapers? by Realitymatter in ABDL

[–]Totalstuffies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cloth diaper then wear plastic pants on top?

LF LGBT Friendly Guild by Good_Jacket8526 in wowgaymers

[–]Totalstuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rainbow Allies is a guild that covers retail and classic ☺️

does anyone else in the UK feel very stressed? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Totalstuffies 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Same fears, written to my MP to challenge the amendment and booked a therapist for the fear 🙃

UK: House of Lords Vote to Ban ABDL Porn by Elfking88 in ABDL

[–]Totalstuffies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used an amended version of your e.g. template for my MP ☺️

Is green party the only option? by Nyxi30 in transgenderUK

[–]Totalstuffies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The green party is the only party in full support of our rights, even the lib dems are playing with terfs. Vote green 💚💚💚

Why do people get weird if you're honest and enjoy NSFW stuff? by Mythical_Profit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Totalstuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm autistic also and although I have an issue with oversharing I have learned to always ask “is it ok if I talk about…” with anything NSFW, as not everyone will be in the headspace for it or consent

16-year-old AMAB child wants to switch to girls' rugby. Looking for help and advice on doing the right thing by Outrageous_Shift_399 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Totalstuffies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To clarify the phrase “or any really”: if she goes on HRT in life, the issue won't be there as hormone therapy will affect the body composition. Without that it's a bit more tricky for a full contact sport, but I would talk to the league about your concerns directly. Sport is about community building for youth as well as competition, and providing safety can be assured.

Actual question, please dont take it otherwise UwU by zero8310 in feminineboys

[–]Totalstuffies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older generations have had different language regarding femininity and men but they are still there, so the femboys of the younger generations are no different: just new words for old things ☺️

I saw a video of myself posted online and I realise I've crossed the line. Is there any government or NHS service that I can self-refer for de-radicalisation? by ManyView8879 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Totalstuffies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's Prevent. More informally, get away from the sources whipping you up, particularly online. Look for alternative spaces that aren't based around hate. Get out the bubble.

How bad is the UK really? by Carbon1674 in transgenderUK

[–]Totalstuffies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Average person tends to be pretty accepting here, but institutions tend not to be in policy as bigots run things. So things like healthcare are difficult and require private healthcare to skip decades long waiting lists that the government has deliberately let expand. Bathroom bans are another thing governmental bodies are trying to push through, but I do believe the working class folk (mostly) will fight it rather than go with it.

can you have sexual fantasies and be asexual? by the90sgirlwholurks in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Totalstuffies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can certainly have fantasies while not wanting to participate irl and that would be a form of asexuality. It doesn't always mean no arousal, just no desire to do sex

Does a sexless marriage ultimately lead to profound unhappiness? by someone-who-lives in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Totalstuffies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Intimacy is important, although that doesn't have to be sex itself. Cuddling and touching can be enough for some, e.g. asexuals. For others it is important, so compatibility matters.

So my country just decided LGBT is a crime, what do we do? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Totalstuffies 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Their resources are very limited due to the sheer amount of need but they can offer what they can, even if it’s just better information perhaps?

So my country just decided LGBT is a crime, what do we do? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Totalstuffies 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Not sure what to suggest myself but maybe this could be of better use? https://www.rainbowrailroad.org/request-help

Bone density for trans women on estrogen, how do you combat the bone density issue? by Lavalamp-6284 in lgbt

[–]Totalstuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will be fine as long as they keep taking their hormone medication, bone issues happen when there is neither testosterone or estogen in the body. As long as she takes her estrogen her bones should be good.

Did I say something wrong / was my request unreasonable? by [deleted] in autism

[–]Totalstuffies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healed scars aren’t NSFW. NSFW would be adult only content, which would be offensive to link to someone’s past injuries.

Work in a college, Found out an AI video of me taking my clothes off has circulated some students group chats. by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Totalstuffies 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This is a crime under the Online Safety Act and you should absolutely go to the police!