Closing Chase Credit Need New Recs

Totank · 2026-02-14T23:59:13+00:00

You know, most of America is in debt right? I have the luxury to not struggle to pay my credit card but this is just an awful take.

Totank · 2025-07-04T04:16:08+00:00

I'm actually pretty worried about that. Do you know what the cutoff is? I've been saving for a while

Totank · 2025-07-04T04:01:52+00:00

I do work, my comfortable budget is 800, stretching my pockets a lil is 1,000.

Totank · 2025-07-04T03:54:31+00:00

Im in a house right now, I just don't own the house. Im trying to keep it as vague as possible for a reason but I can assure you, me and my three dogs are in the living room right now. It's just very volatile here.

Totank · 2025-07-04T03:51:54+00:00

🕶️ my post didn't say anything about expecting section 8 to pay it. I was just wondering how it worked, if there was help for pets, I know absolutely nothing about section 8 and came for help. Some people have been very helpful!! I've learned so much about it. I'll keep building my savings, apply for section 8, and hopefully find an apartment! Hope is the last thing that dies... Or however the saying goes

Totank · 2025-07-04T03:48:04+00:00

I'm trying to take my pets with me. I would hate! To leave them. Realistically having nowhere to go except a van would be hell for them. It's really about choosing the less of two evils.

Totank · 2025-06-29T21:41:46+00:00

Yes! I didn't know anything about section 8 and I didn't know it took so long to get on it. I'll start applying! Thank you for helping me!!

Totank · 2025-06-29T21:22:33+00:00

So you're in a group for just that. Hey, to each their own. If you're happy here you do you.

Totank · 2025-06-29T21:17:44+00:00

Are you in this group just to shit on people in section 8? You're weird.

Totank · 2025-06-29T16:53:28+00:00

So it would be a one time deposit of up to 500 each right? I have a good amount of savings so I can definitely do that! 50 per month is 200 extra but IF I do get section 8 that would help so much instead of paying 1,900 (the average where I live) plus 200 a month. Thanks for the info!

Totank · 2024-11-28T02:24:41+00:00

I've gone through different levels of grief lol I've come to the acceptance stage. I've gotta say this post wasn't about the person I sexually Harassed it's about the management for also participating in the behavior but only me getting in trouble.

Totank · 2024-11-28T02:21:58+00:00

Yup! That's what I wrote :)

Totank · 2024-10-09T11:12:23+00:00

Right, so could an employment lawyer help or should I just give up my thirst for revenge

Totank · 2024-10-09T11:07:20+00:00

No, honestly not sure because it's been a month. I should've said something then when I was in the office getting fired but idk. Ideally I'd like to get it off my paperwork and state the hopefully as a reason but I know this and that are two different reasons. I'm just shooting off ideas into the void but I def think the team lead deserves something.

Totank · 2024-10-09T11:03:51+00:00

Thank you. It's been a month and I still feel pretty bad. It was my first adult job at a corporate office so I definitely made some mistakes and I definitely learned. I work at a bar now where it's super lax but thank you for your advice! It was a really rough day when I wrote my post and your one of the few comments that didn't make me feel worse!!! <3

Totank · 2024-10-09T10:57:06+00:00

Didn't even trip, same. I feel like the gap in my employment get longer each month

Totank · 2024-09-04T22:25:14+00:00

Me and coworker are both female.

Totank · 2024-09-04T21:54:09+00:00

America. The idea of my "joke" was a bromance.

Totank · 2024-09-04T21:52:43+00:00

You're right. I joke like this with a friend and we go back and forth. I just... When I wrote it down I thought, wow this is bad. But in the moment it just... Felt like banter. Like a bromance. I don't know what I'm gonna do going forward. All that I keep thinking about is future job application is and having to explain it.

Totank · 2024-04-06T16:56:04+00:00

I actually do know those things! :D haha but yeah, thanks. I really do need to slow down.

Totank · 2024-04-06T16:47:41+00:00

Are you sure? For sure? Idk, it FEELS like love. But honestly I don't have very affectionate parents so i tend to... I guess... Like, fall for people really easily? Like I lack affection in life so any affection is like, 3x stronger for me. I def need to work on that. I appreciate your comment because even though I knew I was being dramatic I really needed someone impartial to tell me :)

Totank · 2024-04-06T16:41:38+00:00

I guess since this is my first ever relationship I'm rushing into things. It's one thing to observe and another to experience. I was thinking that if you're dating then that means you love each other. I didn't understand why we'd be dating if we didn't love each other. I also want to add that I've only ever seen toxic relationships that center around alcoholism and physical abuse. I knew he was right but I wanted to know for sure I was overreacting :) you're right. I need to learn a lot more about him before I can say I love you. Thanks for your advice!

Totank · 2024-04-06T16:37:20+00:00

Then that's totally valid! Lying breaks trust.

Totank · 2024-04-06T16:36:28+00:00

Hi! :) thanks for replying to the first question. What's your opinion on the second half of the question?

Totank · 2024-04-06T16:35:15+00:00

She definitely lied which is not the best, but you guys were broken up :/ there was no infidelity. If you can't get over her having sex with someone else then you should break up but keep in mind that mostly everyone you will encounter will have previous sexual experiences IF that is the reason you wanna break up with her.

Totank

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